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Scott Sliver

Adventures of a Dayton City Commissioner Wannabe

May 2, 2015 By Scott Sliver

10418474_1596034300667377_2367421871885410076_nThe number one question I have been asked lately is, “Why in the world would you want to run for office?”

 

That’s a great question. I’m still trying to encapsulate my answer into a 10 second sound byte. But the best answer I can give you at this point is, “I was asked to run by the people I have been serving.”

 

People at our food outreaches have said things to me like, “This city really needs someone like you. You should run for mayor.” The implication being, or at least the perception out there is that no one out there cares. Or at least no one cares about them.

 

They know I do. I have been overseeing The Hope Foundation of Greater Dayton for the past five years. Hope provides groceries to nearly 1,000 households every month in Greene and Montgomery Counties. Nearly half of them receive their food at one of our mobile distributions in Huber Heights, Northridge, Fairborn, Kettering, Xenia or Fairborn. (We also resource a pantry in Cedarville.)

 

The person who had started the organization six months prior, came to the realization that she didn’t have the resources to achieve what was in her heart. Out of her own frustration she said to me, “You should just take over.” I was like, “No, no, no… Put me on your Board. I can help you. I know a lot of people!” She prevailed, and I accepted the appointment as Executive Director.

 

Since that time, Hope has grown into one of the largest distributors in the Dayton Foodbank’s network of 88 member-agencies.

 

We are doing great work, but it’s not rocket science. We pick up food from the Foodbank, bag it and give it to people. I think every 251370_409406952447663_345862585_nchurch in our city should have a food pantry, even if it’s just for their neighborhood and it’s only open once per week or even once per month.

 

The old proverb, “Many hands make for light work” applies. We bag groceries for a few hundred households in just 45 minutes. We do it every Wednesday. While some non-profits struggle to get volunteers, we never have. I believe people respond to vision. They don’t respond to “HELP!!!” I believe people respond to, “Join us this Saturday as we go out and serve our community and give out bags of food and hope to people.” It has to be about making a difference, not a person’s contribution by merely “putting food into bags.”

 

But I digress…

 

I am often asked if running for office is the reason we moved downtown. That answer is no. (If you are interested in that piece of our story, you can read one of my previous articles entitled, “Why?” ). Although moving downtown obviously opened the door for me to now be able to run for office.

 

Honestly, I moved downtown to make a statement. I know that may sound crazy, but I had read that in my lifetime Dayton’s population has gone from 260,000 at its peak in the early 1960s, to currently 143,000. I just wanted to make a statement… maybe born out of a combination of desperation and irritation. I thought, “Someone has to do SOMETHING.”

 

Once we were living downtown, I started periodically attending Dayton City Commission meetings. I became interested in the leadership of our city. I wanted to discover how things worked.

 

As The Hope Foundation began getting more and more recognition, and since I am the face of Hope, I began meeting people across the city. I got invited to events and to participate in roundtable discussions about fighting hunger or how to invigorate downtown. I have done briefings at Wright Patterson AFB about Hope.

 

I also started a Facebook page called I Love Dayton! that has 5,100+ Likes, just to have a voice… to promote what I love about our city. I highlight various events, and other non-profits that are doing great work in and around Dayton.

 

Behind the scenes I even ran the social media campaign (as a volunteer) for the National Museum of the United States Air Force 258744_180954245292936_1208857_oFoundation’s bid to bring a retiring space shuttle to Dayton. (I am still crushed that we didn’t get one of those shuttles!)

 

I began meeting people like Cathy Ponitz, Lisa Grigsby, Sandy Gudorf, Carol Clark, Connie Post, Ron Rollins and a whole host of other leaders and business owners around town. I joined a group called New Media Dayton… an affinity group of social media professionals and small business owners who utilize and want to learn more about social media.

 

I even received the “Hunger Champion” award from the Foodbank along the way!

 

Over the past 25 years, I have been leading and caring for people, but it was in a less visible way as a pastor at the Vineyard Church. (Vineyard has campuses on North Main Street in Dayton and in Beavercreek.) Adding Hope to my resume raised my public profile in ways that I never expected. Suddenly, I was being invited into all kinds of opportunities and partnerships.

 

Funny… Same Guy + Different Title = Open Doors

 

Then came THE conversation… the one with a trusted friend who is like-minded in many ways, who also has a non-profit background, but has been involved in the political scene around town in different capacities over the years. I asked him at breakfast a year or so ago, “What would you think about me making a run for Dayton City Commission?” to which he replied, “I’ve had this same conversation a dozen times, and I’ve said, ‘Yes’ four times. You’re the fourth.”

 

I bounced the idea, informally, off a few friends, then more formally off a few others… After some tough conversations and soul-searching, I decided to go for it.

 

Call me crazy… and many have. Trust me, I have overturned the applecart of my life in this effort. And we are11206050_10155542771435613_8171693690812027750_n not yet past the Special Election on Tuesday, May 5.

 

Fortunately, I am surrounded by people who love me and care about me. I have some amazing people who have come alongside me who are guiding me though all the craziness, making sure that I’m ok… that I’m taking time for myself and my family along the way.

 

I have met a lot of people over the past six months, including a handful of elected officials. I have attended numerous neighborhood functions such as the Walnut Hills Neighborhood Association Chili Cook-off, the Shroyer Park Neighborhood Association meeting, Oregon District Historic Society Board Meeting and the UpDayton Summit. I have also attended two candidate forums in west Dayton and I am gaining a greater understanding of what the needs are of people all across our city.

 

Many people have graciously met with me to bring me up to speed, give me pointers, insight or just to encourage me in my effort. I’ve had people make financial contributions to my campaign, even before we hosted our first official fundraiser.

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I have been on a steep learning curve over the past six months. And, yes, it was a lot of hard work getting 1,000 signatures on my petitions. (In the dead of winter, I might add!)

 

I have been both embraced and snubbed. I have been warned and encouraged.

 

Every day I just try to push the ball down the field… Some days I have fumbled the ball, other days I went for it when it was 4th and 10 on my own 20-yard-line. I am trying to stay true to myself and hopefully earn (or keep) the respect of those around me along the way. I am just trying to be the same person on stage, off stage… and back stage.

 

One of the questions in the Cox Media Online Voter Guide is, “What’s the worst thing the city has done in the last four years?” I ended my answer with “Some people like to point out what’s wrong and who’s to blame for it. I’m not that guy.” (Based loosely on a line from the movie “An American President” with Michael Douglas when he is referring to his nemesis during a press conference at the White House at the end of the movie.)

 

I believe we are writing future history now. I want to be a part of our city’s resurgence and future growth. There are signs of life everywhere you look and I’m not going to play the doomsday card to get into office. I love Dayton. And there are a lot of sharp young people out there who believe in our city. If you don’t believe me, check out Generation Dayton, UpDayton or #DaytonInspires. There are exciting things happening all around us and I just want to be a part of it all by providing some guidance and leadership.

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Before I ever thought about running for office I wrote articles for Dayton Most Metro, so I thought it would be ok for me to write this article while I am in the process of running Dayton City Commission. I may never get more than 2-3 minutes of airtime to tell my whole story… So I wanted you to hear it from me, in my own words.

 

I will close with one of my all-time-favorite quotes from Mother Teresa,

“God doesn’t require that we succeed, he only requires that we try.”

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Why??

June 27, 2013 By Scott Sliver 30 Comments

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I have been asked that question a hundred times. “Why would you sell your house in Beavercreek and move to Dayton?”

I have been around Dayton for most of my life. I grew up in Eaton, just 25 miles west of Dayton. I attended the Montgomery County Join Vocational School (now Miami Valley Career Technology Center) my junior and senior years of high school. Then off to the big city I went, to attend the Art Institute of Pittsburgh, where I earned my degree in Visual Communication.

 

Soon after graduation, I landed my first ad agency job at Flynn/Sabatino located at Fourth and Ludlow Streets in downtown Dayton. My first apartment was on Grafton Ave., just across the river. I remember running into one of my high school buddies during that time. He asked what I had been up to. When I told him I was working at an ad agency in Dayton, he responded with, “Oh… Hit the big-time, eh?”

 

I literally laughed out loud.

 

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Times Square circa 1985

After two years I quit my job, sold everything and moved to New York City. I had a friend that had moved there after college.

 

Most would agree that I had a pretty charmed agency career. I was hired as an art director at Bozell Jacobs just a few days after I moved to the city, where I was assigned toMerrill-Lynch and Holiday Inn accounts. I also met my wife Bonnie there. She was from upstate New York, but had migrated to the city to attend Pratt Institute in Brooklyn, earning her BFA with a Minor in Art Education.

 

I remember people assuming that because I was from Ohio that I must have grown up on a farm. My standard answer was, (with the blankest expression I could muster up) “My dad was a State Farm agent… we lived in town… but I did milk a cow once on a field trip in the third grade.”

 

I know they viewed me as this helpless kid from the middle of nowhere. (Often referred to in the city as “fly-over!” (New York, L.A., maybe Chicago. Everything else you just fly over.) I was 22.

 

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With my bride Bonnie, May 24, 1986 in New York, NY.

After a year and a half in New York City I was offered a position at an agency back in Dayton. (Back then I used to say I had been exiled to Dayton.) I had married and my wife we were expecting our first child.

 

What all those New Yorkers didn’t realize was that I considered myself to be the George Baily of my hometown. (Jimmy Stewart’s character from “It’s a Wonderful Life.) “I’m shakin’ the dust of this crummy little town off my feet and I’m gonna see the world!”

 

By the time I was in high school I was telling people I was from Dayton. Who had ever heard of Eaton, Ohio?

 

As a child I can still remember riding into Dayton and the thrill of seeing the I-75/35 interchange! All those layers of overpasses climbing higher and higher! I remember my grandfather telling me stories of helping with the recovery effort from the flood of 1913. My mom grew up on Cleveland Ave. in Dayton, just off Smithville. She graduated from Patterson Co-op. My older sister got a job at Wright Patterson Air Force Base after high school and married a guy from Old North Dayton who attended grade school at Our Lady of the Rosary.

 

Obviously our family always had one foot in Eaton, one foot in Dayton. My orthodontist’s office was on Salem Ave.! After bouncing around from city to city (Cincinnati, Tipp City, Brookville, Beavercreek), we find ourselves in a new season of life. We are officially “empty nesters.”

 

3½ years ago we had this idea… to sell our house in Beavercreek and return to our urban roots. (Granted, Dayton is not Manhattan, but it is our home… And it’s the hub of this region.) Our youngest daughter still had one year left of high school, and plans to wed the following summer. And we had a house to sell.

 

We spent the next 3½ years heading down this path. We weren’t all that interested in McPherson Town, Oregon District  or South Park. All great options, but we wanted to live right downtown. In November of 2012 we sold our home. $20,000.00 in repairs and upgrades over two years, and six months on the market. And we had to take $6,000.00 to the closing table. (Obviously we were really committed to this idea.)

 

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Our home at FirstPlace

Once it sold, we were faced with, “What do we do now?”

Our dream has been to purchase a building downtown and renovate it into a really cool loft apartment. But it became painfully obvious that wasn’t going to happen in any reasonable timeframe. So, after crashing at my sister’s house behind the Art Institute for a few months, we elected to settle into an apartment at FirstPlace on West First Street and give ourselves a chance to catch our breath.

 

We love living downtown.

 

I remember the exact place and time when I felt the coin drop and I realized I really do love Dayton… Driving through downtown on I-75 about to merge onto 35. (At that time the Reynolds and Reynolds clock tower was still at that location.) I turned to my friend and began talking about how much I love Dayton and how there are so many people in need and how our city needs revived!

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The western view from my window

 

 

We now have front-row seats for the I-75 construction through downtown! It’s active with over 90,000 cars passing by each day. We get to watch the weather roll in, and the sun set every night from our 7th floor domicile! I can tell you every time there’s a Dragon’s home game, or when the Life Flight takes off from Miami Valley Hospital. We have discovered some great places to eat, and they aren’t all on Fifth or Brown Streets. (Tank’s, Coco’s and Olive to name a few.) We love walking around RiverScape! Especially when the fountains are turned on!

 

Sure, Dayton pretty much shuts down early in the evening unless there is an event at the Schuster Center or Victoria Theater… But those events happen pretty frequently! In the few months we have lived downtown, Shrek the Musical, the Addams Family and Mary Poppins have come to town. Not to mention Rock of Ages, Dreamgirls and Myth Busters-Behind the Myths! On the first Friday of every month there is a FirstFriday Art Hop, and in the spring and fall, Urban Nights. Countless festivals and other events at Courthouse Square sprinkle the calendar.

 

I could go on, but you get the idea.

 

Again, Dayton isn’t Manhattan… I get that. I also get that some of my urbanite friends poo-poo places like the Greene. I understand that when some refer to Dayton, it’s boundary-specific. But I’m not one of those people. I love all that this region offers. (Did you know seven counties border Montgomery County?)

 

I love that Dayton holds a major league record for consecutive sell-outs (Dragons/Fifth-Third Field.) I love that Dayton holds more patents per capita than any other city in the country! I love that Dayton topped the list of “Happiest City to Work In” by Forbes in 2012! I love that when President Obama wanted to take the British Prime Minister to a basketball game, they came to Dayton’s own U.D. Arena! I love that we are home to the National Museum of the United States Air Force! (Even though we didn’t get one of the retiring space shuttles… I’m still bitter about that!) Did you know that Martin Sheen recently stopped by the Foodbank? I could go on…

 

I would be amiss if I failed to mention the Wright brothers in this diatribe.

 

And, have you seen the new 50+ million dollar GE Aviation Research facility being built near U.D.?

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The view at sunset from our highrise.

 

Yes, I am well aware most of our automotive industry dried up and blew to Mexico. I realize that our only remaining Fortune 500 Company (NCR) moved to Atlanta, GA. Such is life. At the time, it felt like the final nail in the coffin.

 

But I am so tired of hearing people say, “Dayton is dying.” Dayton is NOT dying. It is reviving. There are signs of life everywhere you look. Dayton is no different than any other small-to-mid-sized-city in the U.S. Most cities like Dayton are struggling to keep businesses alive and keep kids in school. Most inner cities are constantly fighting crime or the perception of being unsafe. Many businesses relocate to more suburban areas. I get that… I do.

 

But there is a movement abroad to see Dayton flourish again. To see Dayton become the innovative city for which it once was known. We have some great up-and-coming young leaders in our community via Generation Dayton.

 

You may not love Dayton the way I do, but I would challenge you to step outside your comfort zone a bit and give Dayton a chance. Take in a show at the Schuster or take a stroll though any of the amazing Five Rivers MetroParks scattered across the Miami Valley. Come downtown on a Friday or Saturday night. Or better yet, stop by the PNC Second Street Market on a Saturday morning. You may be pleasantly surprised!

 

And, maybe… just maybe… you’ll love Dayton, too!

 

@ScottSliver (Sly-ver)

The voice of I Love Dayton! on Facebook. Executive Director of The Hope Foundation of Greater Dayton. Pastor at the Vineyard Church in Beavercreek. New media enthusiast with a degree in visual communication. http://hope4dayton.com [email protected]

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