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Jonathon Reinhart, an electrical engineering major at the University of Dayton, decided that decorating his house in the traditional way wasn’t big (or bright) enough, so he built his own animated light controller. The result has become a YouTube sensation, receiving nearly 15,000 hits in 5 days.
Check it out…
For more videos, visit http://lights.onthefive.com/.
Are you new to volunteering, or wondering how to get more out of your volunteering experience? Have you had a hard time finding the right place to volunteer? This webinar will walk you through some of the training and screening tools nonprofits use, and will better prepare you to ask questions and evaluate whether the organization is a good fit for you and your skills. Potential stumbling blocks that volunteers encounter will be covered, as well as tools to help you identify and overcome them. Presented by two experienced volunteer managers this is an opportunity for you to ask questions and learn how to be a great volunteer.
Volunteer Match will host a FREE webinar Thurs, Jan 14th from 2-3pm. Click here to register.
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Over the past several weeks, work crews have been busy cutting out curbs for new turning lanes and installing new traffic light poles all over Downtown Dayton in preparation for the two-way street conversions that will be completed over the first few months of 2010 (view a map of the changes here). This major change to downtown’s street grid was first introduced in 2003, and initial plans were introduced in public sessions in 2007 – with fierce opposition from downtown business owners who rightly argued against the loss of the majority of street parking spaces that came with the plan. Consultants and engineers went back to the drawing board and came up with a final plan that converted fewer streets but also maintained the majority of parking spaces. As a downtown resident and business owner, I am happy with the changes that we will soon see.
As noted in this article from Governing Magazine, downtowns didn’t have one-way streets until after World War II when civil defense planners began to worry about nuclear war and the citizens’ ability to evacuate urban cores quickly. In the 60’s and 70’s when the masses fled to the suburbs, one-way streets offered the quickest way out of downtown and back to suburban neighborhoods. But while these mini-expressways may have been good for suburbanites trying to get out of the city as fast as possible, they also helped kill downtown vibrancy by making streets less pedestrian-friendly.
Eventually in past couple decades, cities started converting streets back to two-way with positive results. Just read this excerpt about what happened when Vancouver, WA did it last year:
Over the past couple of decades, Vancouver, Washington, has spent millions of dollars trying to revitalize its downtown, and especially the area around Main Street that used to be the primary commercial center. Just how much the city has spent isn’t easy to determine. But it’s been an ambitious program. Vancouver has totally refurbished a downtown park, subsidized condos and apartment buildings overlooking it and built a new downtown Hilton hotel.Some of these investments have been successful, but they did next to nothing for Main Street itself. Through most of this decade, the street remained about as dreary as ever. Then, a year ago, the city council tried a new strategy. Rather than wait for the $14 million more in state and federal money it was planning to spend on projects on and around Main Street, it opted for something much simpler. It painted yellow lines in the middle of the road, took down some signs and put up others, and installed some new traffic lights. In other words, it took a one-way street and opened it up to two-way traffic.
The merchants on Main Street had high hopes for this change. But none of them were prepared for what actually happened following the changeover on November 16, 2008. In the midst of a severe recession, Main Street in Vancouver seemed to come back to life almost overnight.
Within a few weeks, the entire business community was celebrating. “We have twice as many people going by as they did before,” one of the employees at an antique store told a local reporter. The chairman of the Vancouver Downtown Association, Lee Coulthard, sounded more excited than almost anyone else. “It’s like, wow,” he exclaimed, “why did it take us so long to figure this out?” – Governing Magazine, “The Return of the Two-Way Street”
While two-way streets alone won’t magically turn Downtown Dayton into a thriving vibrant urban core, they are a significant piece to the puzzle. And that is only the beginning; in the next couple months we will find out if the 3C/D rail will get funded, and if so then a brand new passenger train station will be built at 6th and Ludlow/Wilkinson. There are serious talks about getting a streetcar system connecting UD, Tech Town and the CBD. City planners are busy working on several other placemaking projects that will make downtown more inviting and pedestrian friendly, with a focus on Patterson Blvd and Fifth Street. And soon, people may start complaining about something rarely seen now as they travel in both directions on our downtown streets – too much damn traffic. And yes, that will be a good thing!
No, there are not mountains in Ohio and yes, it only snows enough to cover the ground maybe 4-5 times a year however hitting the slopes is quite easy for South Western Ohio residents, if you like skiing on ice that is.
Having grown up in Ohio, the idea of experiencing the thrill of carving off-piste on powder only came to fruition in Warren Miller films and magazines.
Whether you are a seasoned ski-bum or bunny hill groupie, there are actually a few decent options (for the Midwest that is) right here in Southwestern Ohio.
Mad River Mountain Resort
Mad River Mountain (MRM) is located in Zanesfield, OH (between Marysville and Bellefontaine on US 33), Mad River Mountain was opened in 1962 and will starts it’s 48th year in operation this season.
The season typically runs from December to March and offers fun for all levels, abilities, and desires. This family friendly resort has an instruction program, restaurant, ski/snowboard pro shop, and best of all, a bar.
Lift tickets are reasonable (compared to $100 a day in Vail, CO) and are approximately $30 during the week and $42 on the weekend. MRM also offers discounts for multi-day purchases, military discounts and more.
Check out www.skimadriver.com for more information about Mad River Mountain Resort
Perfect North Slopes
Perfect North Slopes (PNS) is located in Lawrenceburg, Indiana. From I-275 take the US 50 Exit 16, follow ski area signs north on Indiana Route 1 to ski area entrance.
Address: 19074 Perfect Lane, Lawrenceburg, IN 47025
PNS is similar in respect to MRM in that it offers something for everyone. If you are a skier/boarder looking for a little more challenge, PNS does provide a pseudo-black diamond experience on a few of their trails, which drop off 400 ft., run through trees and occasionally have some manky moguls.
Passes at PNS are a flat $45 a day (8 hour session). Along with your lift ticket, PNS provides rentals, lessons, multi-day purchases, and military discounts.
Check out www.perfectnorth.com for more information about Perfect North Slopes
Bottom-Line: You are trying to ski in Ohio, where it snows on average 18-25 inches a year, don’t get upset when your skis scrape across the ice inducing flashbacks of elementary teachers scraping their nails across a chalk board. However, ice aside, you have 2 good options that are fairly inexpensive (compared to most resorts) and are only an hour and a half from Dayton. If you want longer runs, steeper descents (if you think 400 ft. is steep) then head to Perfect North. When your kids start building jumps in the yard and you need a drink and warm fire, bring them to Mad River Mountain’s great terrain park. You know you are too old for the rail slides, don’t kid yourself.
The Woman’s Club of Dayton Foundation, the YWCA Dayton and the Friends of the Dayton Arcade have teamed up on an initiative aimed at honoring and preserving Dayton’s unique history. They have formed the “Jewels of the Gem City” Committee to select “individuals or organizations that have made significant contributions to the historic preservation of Dayton.”
The public is invited to nominate those who have made financial, educational, cultural, promotional or restorative contributions to Dayton’s heritage. Nominations will be reviewed by a selection committee, and the “Jewels of the Gem City” will be announced in March and honored at an event on June 4, 2010. Nominations are due by February 1, 2010, and can be made by downloading a form from www.thedaytonwomansclub.com, www.ywcadayton.org or www.daytonarcade.wetpaint.com. For more information, call 937-432-1957 or email [email protected].
Imagine yourself selling bakery treats and never having to worry about gaining a pound from them! A dedicated group of volunteers do this every week at the Animal Snackers Bakery at the 2nd Street Market. They sell over 70 varieties of treats, including poodle puffs, doxie doughnuts, pomeranian pizza plugs, rottie biscotti and kitty crunchies. There are also dog and cat toys and bandannas that have been sewed by other volunteers.
More volunteers are needed to help with these and new projects to raise funds in order to give more dogs and cats a happy life. If you are interested in helping these neglected animals find a a new home there is a volunteer meeting being held the second Tuesday of each month, so the next one will be Tues, Dec 8th at 6:30pm at the Humane Society of Greater Dayton at 1661 Nichols Road.
The Neighborhood
By Zet ArcillaYou’ve been there for me
When I lost the woman I had
Dedicated my life to.
When I was in pain and sorrow
When I lost my hope
You’ve been there for me
When I said, “I do.”
When there’s no purpose in my living
You’ve been there for me.
When I went away
And stayed away so long
You’ve been there for me.
I returned to you,
My lovely city.
You’ve been there for me.
Beautiful, isn’t it?
This poem was written by Stivers School for the Arts student, Zet Arcilla, as part of a Rebuilding Together Dayton service project called This Dayton Life.
After my first DaytonMostMetro post, I was contacted by Caitlin Closser, AmeriCorps Outreach Coordinator with Rebuilding Together Dayton. I admit I was unfamiliar with the program, but one thing I love about Dayton is that it’s big enough to have programs like Rebuilding Together Dayton, but small enough that they don’t hesitate to connect with you.
Rebuilding Together provides home repair services to local residents. The emphasis is on the elderly and disabled, but low-income homeowners might qualify as well. The services can be simple: installing a GFCI outlet to accommodate complex medical equipment in the home of a special needs baby. That might cost up to $100.00 per unit to install, and typically they are only installed around sinks- sources of water- so that’s about $300.00 for two in the kitchen and one in the bathroom, and it’s not complicated. But it is necessary. And for some families, $300.00 represents difficult situation.
Fred Dewinter
By Brett Bower and Jordan ThompsonEvery person has his story. Some are more solemn than others, but all are stories, just the same. As Fred was speaking, we began to form an image of what his personality was like. He speaks with an unusual accent that is part southern and part urban, which we think is awesome. He’s humble and straightforward. Although he isn’t really the talkative type, he’s ready to tell his story.
Fred Dewinter has lived in Dayton for over 20 years, and he says that this city has been, for the most part, good to him. “I like Dayton a lot; it’s been good to me and my loved ones,” he stated. He said that he had seen a lot of changes over the last 18 years. Even though he didn’t elaborate, we understood a couple of the changes that he had implied, for example, many of Dayton’s jobs leaving. Then we asked him to name his favorite thing about Dayton. Fred told us that Daytonians are always willing to help out a person in need. We agreed with Fred when he said this, and we also feel that this is one of the most valued aspects about Dayton. …
Services might be extensive. They recently rebuilt a front porch and completed extensive roof repairs to a home that was damaged during Hurricane Ike. A complicated and expensive project that many of us would find daunting, even with insurance. For some, it’s truly an impossible situation.
That’s technically what Rebuilding Together Dayton does, but the real story here is in the lives that have changed because of the work, and Caitlin went to the creative writing class at Stivers to have students tell the stories of homeowners who have been helped by Rebuilding Together.
Margaret Harden
by Bryan Manger and Francesca Snyder“I’ve never been one to conform . . . living in the city is absolutely refreshing,” Margaret Harden, who goes by “Charlie,” said about moving to Dayton from the suburbs. Charlie has lived in the Dayton area for 30 years and in the historic district of the city for 15. She has seen the neighborhood “evolve a lot” through her years there and has found it “interesting to watch.” Charlie’s home was chosen for the Christmas in April project. Seventy people, everyone from the Girl Scouts to the Air Force, from Miami Valley Hospital employees to interior designers, came around to help work on her two-story Victorian. “It was absolutely amazing . . . like lots of ants all over my house,” she said, her face lighting up at the memory. Since the project, she’s been “looking for a way to help, give something back”…
You have to wonder how these student’s lives will be enriched forever by this simple storytelling project- a direct and intimate understanding that “Everyone has a story, every story has value.” You are invited to share This Dayton Life and “an evening of storytelling” when the Stivers students present the homeowners with the completed This Dayton Life project:
The Homeowner’s Story
Everyone has a story, every story has value.We brought together a group of Rebuilding Together Dayton’s past homeowners and a class of talented Creative Writing students from Stivers School for the Arts. The students conducted interviews then wrote stories about the people they met. The result of these meetings is a rich tapestry of living history from some of the cornerstones of Dayton’s neighborhoods.
Join us for an evening of storytelling as the students present these incredible stories to the homeowners for the first time.
Tuesday, December 8, 2009 at 6:00 pm
First Baptist Church of Dayton
Homes tell stories. What’s yours?
Contact Rebuilding Together Dayton, to find out how you can participate.
Photos: Rebuilding Together Dayton. Used with permission.
It’s Christmas Time in the city! Last week, Downtown Dayton had their annual Holiday Festival that included the popular tree lighting. And over the next couple weekends, two three of Dayton’s most popular historic districts will be presenting their own holiday home tours. If you have ever wanted to see some beautifully restored historic homes, there is no better time than around the holidays – and these tours give you an opportunity to see several.
First up this coming Saturday December 5 is the 2009 Historic South Park Holiday Home Tour. Eleven homes will dazzle and delight, including grand Queen Annes, quaint cottages, and majestic Victorians. Carolers in Victorian garb will fill you with memories of Decembers past.
This self- guided tour begins Saturday at 12N and ends at 7PM. (The ticket window will close at 5PM.) Cost is $10 in advance and $15 the day of the tour. Admission price includes a sumptuous dessert buffet at the beginning of the tour. Plan to spend two hours enjoying the sights.
To reserve tickets, please visit www.historicsouthpark.org or call (937) 603-4893. (Tickets will not be mailed.) On Saturday, pick up your tickets and begin your tour from Hope Lutheran Church, 500 Hickory Street. (Turn west off Wayne Avenue onto Hickory. Enter through the church parking lot.) Park free at Hope and Emerson Academy across the street. A shuttle will be available to transport guests back to the parking lots from the most distant home. Check out the WDTN Bucher’s Beat story with our good friends Bill & Amy, whose house is on the tour:
Next, Dayton’s Oldest Historic District would like to invite you to be part of its annual Holiday Candlelight Tour on December 7, 8, and 9. A liveried guide will escort you as you tour beautifully decorated historic homes. The last home on the tour will offer you Victorian Sweets, Champagne Punch and Coffee. Four of the District’s finest restaurants are participating in a dinner/tour option. They are: Jays Seafood; Thai 9; Coco’s Bistro and Pacchia. Check out their website for more details.
Then the following weekend on December 11-13 head over to St. Anne’s Hill for “A Dickens of a Christmas in St. Anne’s Hill” with guided tours of some of Dayton’s most beautiful historic homes. The tours are led 
by guides costumed in period dress and feature live entertainment followed by a visit to the beautiful homes in the historic St. Anne’s Hill neighborhood, each decorated for the season. The tours will conclude with a delicious old-fashioned dessert and a visit to the gift shop.
Tours begin every half hour, starting from 4:30-8:00 p.m. on Friday, December 11th; 1:30-8:00 p.m. on Saturday, December 12th; and 1:30-6:00 p.m. on Sunday, December 13th. Tours last approximately two to three hours, including entertainment, home tours, and dessert. Tickets this year are $18 each, and may now be ordered online at www.stanneshill.org. Due to the popularity of the event, the schedule of tours sells out quickly and advance tickets are required.
The 2009 tour will begin at the High Street Gallery, located at 48 High Street. The tour will conclude with a tour of the popular Bossler Mansion, a landmark structure built in 1869. This magnificent home is considered Dayton’s best example of Second Empire architecture. Guests can snack on a classic dessert, browse Victoria’s Parlor Gift Shoppe, walk by the newly renovated Stivers School for the Arts, and enjoy a view of Downtown Dayton.
“A Dickens of a Christmas In St. Anne’s Hill” is the Miami Valley’s oldest continuously running historic home tour, having debuted in 1983. Proceeds from the tour will benefit the St. Anne’s Hill Neighborhood Association, and are used to maintain the neighborhood’s historic character.
So which tour do you plan to take? Of course, you can always do both!
The Dayton Urban League Young Professionals is looking to train the next generation of leaders.
The Dayton Urban League auxillary group, founded in 2001, will host a networking event for young professionals on December 16 at Therapy Cafe at 5:30 p.m. Wrap up the year and prepare for 2010 by coming out to “meet and greet” with community leaders and other professionals in the Dayton area. The DULYP will unveil its “I am empowered to…” campaign as well as outline plans for the upcoming year.
The Dayton Urban League Young Professionals employs a five-point agenda:
For more information, or to RSVP to the event, please contact:
Dayton Urban League Young Professionals. 907 West Fifth Street,Dayton, Ohio 45402. 937-220-6665
We Care Arts is a non-profit organization that helps emotionally, mentally and physically disabled adults and youth achieve greater personal independence. Through a variety of art classes and experiences, they promote the artist’s individuality, self esteem, community skills, ability to focus, life skills, responsibility, confidence and job skills.
Through the creation and sale of their individually crafted items, artists are able to affirm their self worth, take steps back into the mainstream of society and receive a supplemental income. We Care Arts provides all training and materials to artists and a portion of the proceeds of all sales is returned to the artist. The remainder goes back to program funding.
On Sat Dec 5th from 10am – 2pm, We Care Arts will host it’s annual Cookie Walk fundraiser. Thousands of the most gorgeous, bite-size, melt-in-your-mouth cookies will be arranged on long tables. At the start of the walk, you will receive a food service glove and bakery box. As you make your way along the cookie tables, you select as many goodies as you want, in as many varieties as you want. At the end of the walk, your box (or boxes) of cookies is weighed. The Cost – $5 per pound!!
Come buy cookies, donate cookies or candy, volunteer to help at the event and help spread the word!!
How can you help?
Helping We Care Arts by donating home-baked cookies for our event. The guidelines for donations are as follows:
1. Please contact Martha Leach at 426-5312 to confirm your donation to the
Cookie Walk.
2. We’d prefer the cookies to be miniature, bite-sized (approximately 1-1/2”). Buyers feel they can get more variety if the cookies are smaller. If your cookie works better larger, that’s ok, we’ll take them all!
3. Make your cookies extraordinary! This is an event where people can purchase homemade cookies that they normally would not make themselves. Ethnic or unusual ingredients, dipped cookies, or a variation on an old favorite are big sellers. We also welcome diabetic-friendly cookies as well as bite-sized bar cookies.
4. Homemade candies and snacks are also accepted.
5. Please include a 3×5 card with the name of the cookie and listed ingredients to inform persons with food allergies. This card will be set out with the cookies, so please print! Also specify on your 3×5 card if the cookie is diabetic friendly or sugar-free. (If you wish to be contacted for donations for next year, please fill out the form below and return it with your donation.)
6. Cookies must be delivered to We Care Arts, 3035 Wilmington Pike, on Friday, December 4, between the hours of 10 AM and 3 PM.
Truly Experience Winter in the Miami Valley
As the first weather reports of snow appear in the holiday forecast our routines shift from a fall to winter mind set. One of my favorite attributes of the Miami Valley is the ability to truly experience all four seasons, and winter is surely one of them. When the temperature drops below freezing, Miami Valley residents have a tendency to lock themselves in their homes, crank up the heat and pull out the snuggies. Why stay inside all winter when this region has numerous opportunities to enjoy the serenity, spirit, and color of the winter season.
Before you begin to scan local calendars, festivals, maps, and resorts, it is vital to understand how to properly dress during the winter in the great outdoors. The easiest way to state it is to, “Think Like an Onion.” Yes, an onion, not the onion that makes your eyes water or gives you bad breath but the onion that is layered. Layering is the key to regulating your body temperature in the winter.
Understanding how your body loses heat is the key to choosing the right layers. There are four ways you body looses heat, each with a scientific label that I will leave out as not to bore you. Body heat is lost by heat escaping due to lack of insulation, wind draw
ing heat off exposed skin, direct contact with cold surfaces, and evaporation from sweating.
Numerous dangers, which include hypothermia and frost-bite are possible, even in mild temperatures, when the body is not properly protected. In order to protect yourself from cold ailments and dangers you need to be properly insulated for the activity you will be participating in.
Sedentary: like fishing or hunting require thick insulation around your core area and where your body might come in contact with cold surfaces
Active: such as cross country skiing and snowshoeing require not as much insulation around your core and should focus on protecting your extremities with fabrics that wick sweat and breathe well.
Mixed: Alpine Skiing is an example of a mixed activity where you may experience a balance between heart-pounding effort and rest. Layering and venting become more important to easily transition between bundling up and cooling down.
Thinking like an Onion is the principle concept in protecting your body during outdoor activities in the winter. The layering process consists of 3 main layers.
Base Layer: consists of a thermal layer, sometimes referred to as long underwear. Base Layer fabrics should consist of non-cotton material such as silk, polyester, and poly blends that are excellent in wicking moisture off your skin.
Mid Layer: the functionality of the mid layer is to provide some insulation and style when the outer garments are removed. Wool and Fleece make a great insulating mid layer. If possible, stay away from cotton at all costs.
Outer Layer: provides protection from the elements, such as wind and rain, or snow. Outer layers can also have additional insulating capabilities. Effective outer layer materials include breathable, waterproof fabrics. Many companies have different names for outer layer fabrics which may include Gore-Tex, Conduit, etc.
Experiencing the outdoors during the Miami Valley winter is a great way to beat the cabin fever and get out of the house. To ensure a safe and enjoyable winter outing, be sure to have little skin exposed to the outside, adequate insulation, regulate your body temperature through layering to avoid sweating, and have a great time.
A few key outdoor retailers in the area are experts in winter recreation and outdoor endeavors. Visit these two locally owned shops for more expert tips on effective layering and to purchase some of the best gear available. Great Miami Outfitters, www.greatmiamioutfitters.com and Valleywood Ski Shop, www.valleywoodskishop.goodbarry.com
Do you have a dream home? You know, that one home that exists in your mind against which you measure all other homes? Is yours a cool loft condo, or an ornate historic home? Maybe it’s a new, custom built 3500 square foot home on 5 acres? Is it a quiet 30 acre gentleman’s farm in that place between large working farms and suburbia?
One very cool thing about the Dayton area is that you can start at Third and Main, and drive in nearly any direction and see all sorts of homes- everything from lofts, past historic homes, into post-war inner ring mid-century modern homes, newer subdivisions, small farms, and within 20 minutes you can be cruising past row after and tidy row of corn and soybeans. Dayton, like most of the Rust Belt, is wonderfully diverse in many ways, and that diversity is visible in all the different real estate options available to us. We could say there’s a dream home in Dayton for everyone.
She called one late-winter afternoon.
“I got your name from Miami Valley Fair Housing. Can you help me with a short sale?”
A short sale occurs when a bank agrees to accept less on the sale of a home, than is actually owed. In other words, the bank is going to come up short on this sale, thus “short sale”. Typically the owner finds themselves unable to pay back the mortgage and instead of waiting to be foreclosed on, they negotiate with the bank to enter into a short sale. It looks better on your credit rating than a foreclosure, so it might be in the owner’s best interest to discuss the possibility with their mortgage lender, but it can be a long and difficult process. As Realtors often joke- Short sales are anything but.
Outside my office window, the snow was that lovely shade of Sludge Gray that defines old snow, and the sky was that lovely shade of Cloudy Gray that defines sunless Dayton winters. I was taking notes as she started telling me her story. Single mother, job loss, working part time, going back to school- she was doing everything “right”, but she was still going to lose her home- her dream home.
Now, Realtors know that your dream home is going to be completely different from your brother’s dream home, which is not at all like your best friend’s dream home. We are each unique, and we are each entitled to have our own unique dreams. She was living in a brand new home, in a brand new subdivision. Tract home, yes, but for her, a new home was a dream, and she was going to lose her dream home, in the middle of a gray Dayton winter. Deep breath. Okay.
I went out to the new home in the new subdivision in Trotwood. I was paying close attention to the neighborhood, and the exterior condition of the home. Modest homes, and only a few years old, but you’d be surprised how quickly a little neglect can lead to big problems. I was relieved to see that this home looked great on the outside. She loved her home and it showed- curb appeal always helps, but especially in winter.
The interior was just as lovely- more so actually, with nice decorative touches here and there, and still as clean as a model home. She loved this place, it was obvious, and she told me how happy she was to have purchased a new home in a new neighborhood for her and her son. This was a lovely place to call her own, but she lost her job, and her part time job wasn’t paying nearly enough, so we started the short sale process. Because of her love and care, we were going to be able to list this at nearly full price.
Before a bank agrees to a short sale, they want to make sure that they cannot recoup the full amount owed on the loan. The seller has to fill out forms and statements, and send specific information of proof that their financial situation has changed. If you’ve ever applied for a home loan, you know how extensive that process is. A short sale is no different. You might think of it as un-applying for the loan. It took a few weeks to gather all the documents and make contact with the loss mitigation officer who would be taking over her loan, and get all the forms her lender needed.
Like foreclosures, short sales can be an emotionally painful time, and Realtors try to make this process as smooth as possible. We are not only dealing with the bank on our client’s behalf, we are sometimes a shoulder to cry on. Occasionally a seller will just give up and let the home go, become uncooperative and uncommunicative, but this seller loved this home and wanted to do whatever she could to keep her dream home, so during this time of un-applying for the loan, she kept working, going to school, taking care of her son and her household.
Just a few days before we were ready to officially list the property in the MLS, I got a phone call. “Teri, I wanted to let you know that I’m so grateful for all your help, but I was just offered a new position at work, and I’ll be able to make my mortgage payments now!”
As you gather with loved ones this week, you might drive past a suburban Dayton subdivision and wonder why anyone would want to live there. You might look around at the people you know so well and think about their homes. A modest tract home, a large McMansion, an historic fixer, a garden condo- any one of these might be the furthest thing from your dream home. But take a moment to be thankful for what I know- that every home, regardless of how modest or extravagant, new or old, each home holds the unique dreams of the remarkable dreamers within, and in that regard, we are all the same.
Happy Thanksgiving!
The 2009 Dayton Holiday Festival is looking for volunteers to help out during the Grande Illumination on Fri, Nov 27th from 6-9:30pm. For more info please contact Molly or call her at 224-1518 x 229.
Dayton-area businesses in targeted growth industries may be eligible for financial assistance in employing dislocated workers.
Project Hire, a State of Ohio program funded by the American Recovery and Reinvestment Act, may provide stipends of up to $6,000 per hired employee to assist with training expenses.
By packaging job seekers’ existing skills with a tax credit and additional training, these individuals will become more attractive to prospective employers, beyond what the job seekers could have accomplished on his or her own. The job training will be funded through the use of Ohio Learning Accounts (OLA), which will provide dislocated workers short-term training resulting in an industry-recognized, portable credential to expand employment opportunities. The Work Opportunity Tax Credit (WOTC) is a federal credit administered by the state that employers can take for hiring workers from the following disadvantaged groups: unemployed veterans, disconnected youth in need of skills, member of a family receiving Temporary Assistance to Needy Families (TANF), long term family or food assistance recipient, person living in a federally designated empowerment zone, summer youth program employee, vocational rehabilitation referral, ex-felon, and supplemental security income (SSI) recipient
Total Funds: The initiative will be funded with $8 million from the American Recovery
and Reinvestment Act Statewide Workforce funds in Fiscal Year 2010.
The Dayton Area Chamber of Commerce, in partnership with Montgomery County, will hold a workshop on Tuesday, December 1, to help employers determine their eligibility. It will be held at Sinclair Community College’s Building 12, from 8:30 a.m. to 10:00 a.m.
To register for the December 1 event, visit www.daytonchamber.org.
For more information on Project Hire, contact Chris Wimsatt at the Dayton Area Chamber of Commerce at 226-8293.
When Bill Pote and I sat down to discuss what insight I might be able to share with the Dayton MostMetro community, I immediately said, “Stories”.
I’m a Realtor. I am privy to the most intimate details of my client’s lives, and while I am forbidden from sharing some of those stories- Realtors work under strict confidentiality rules- I can share other stories.
Real estate tells stories, homes tell stories, land tells stories. It is said that Realtors don’t sell homes, the home sells itself. When we show a home to a buyer, they love it or hate it, but real estate agents cannot talk someone into, or “sell” someone on purchasing a home that they hate. It just doesn’t happen, and I believe that in many cases, it’s because of the story the home is telling the buyers.
When we walk into a home, we get a “feeling”, don’t we? We are responding to the life, and lives, shared within those walls. Was the home cared for? Was it abused? Was it neglected? Did a happy family live there and did they simply grow out of the home? Did a happy family live there until they were foreclosed upon? You can tell when you walk into a home how the home was treated, and that’s often what we respond to when we choose a home. We have a visceral reaction to the story the home is telling us.
I’m a Dayton native. My mother and father are proud Stivers alumni. Mom grew up in the Oregon District “before it was the Oregon District” as she likes to remind me. It was in the 40’s and 50’s and my great-grandmother owned a small neighborhood store, and my mom and grandmother Rose lived in an apartment over Grannie’s Store.
My dad tells the story of making his first visit to Mom’s apartment. Granny Rose had made some soup and offered Dad a bowl. When Dad looked into the bowl, he saw it was only half full. “Stingy” he thinks to himself, until he sat down at the table. The floor was so slanted, and thus the table, that the soup nearly spilled out of the bowl. “Stingy” quickly became “smart, and a good cook to boot!”
I had a client ask me to show them a property in the Oregon District, and by weird coincidence it was Grannie’s Store, made into a 2-unit, the store was now an apartment. I asked my client if he minded if I piggy-backed a brief showing for my mom. She met me there and we stood in her old block while she told me stories about throwing water balloons off the roof of Grannie’s first store. She stood in the middle of the street and showed me where her best neighborhood pal lived and how they both got grounded once for some infraction, and had an 8 o’clock curfew. She remembered how they stood “right here in the street and talked” until one minute before curfew, and took off running for their homes. “The people who lived in this home had wonderful parties! Oh look what they did to the Store! The meat locker was here… They’ve added a closet- that used to be stairs…” Story after story was contained in this home, in this block, in this neighborhood.
Today in the City of Dayton, there is a battle over real estate stories. As we demolish our homes, the stories go with them. The neighbors look at the now-vacant lot and shake their heads and remember the stories of the families who lived there. Happy and sad, life-altering stories are demolished along with the bricks and mortar. We cringe at shiny new infill housing. It’s not the same, is it? Where are stories that match the rest of the neighborhood? We have to make a leap of faith that the lot itself can be nurtured into new life and will someday have new stories tell, and that those stories will be an integral part of the future of Dayton, as the stories that came down along with the home, were an integral part of Dayton’s past.
Real estate tells stories. I’m a Realtor and I’m so honored to be given the chance to share some Dayton stories in this space, and my hope is that you will be enticed into sharing your stories with us.
Girl Scouts of Western Ohio, Dayton Region, is looking for a guest speaker to discuss and lead an activity about CROCHET as a hobby to girls in grades 1-3. This is a three-week series, with girls learning about a different hobby they can participate in each week taking place at our program center, 450 Shoup Mill Rd, Dayton, OH 45415.
Volunteers must be available from 6p-8p on January 6, January 13, and January 20. Please contact Michelle VanHuss, Program Services Specialist, at 937-279-6528 if you are interested in this opportunity.
Skills Needed: Volunteer should be proficient in crochet techniques and able to teach young girls a few basic skills.
All supplies for the girls will be provided. Staff member will work with volunteer to ensure a quality experience for girls.
