This Dayton Life: A Tapestry of Stories

The Neighborhood
By Zet Arcilla

You’ve been there for me
When I lost the woman I had
Dedicated my life to.
When I was in pain and sorrow
When I lost my hope
You’ve been there for me
When I said, “I do.”
When there’s no purpose in my living
You’ve been there for me.
When I went away
And stayed away so long
You’ve been there for me.
I returned to you,
My lovely city.
You’ve been there for me.

Beautiful, isn’t it?

This poem was written by Stivers School for the Arts student, Zet Arcilla, as part of a Rebuilding Together Dayton service project called This Dayton Life.

After my first DaytonMostMetro post, I was contacted by Caitlin Closser, AmeriCorps Outreach Coordinator with Rebuilding Together Dayton. I admit I was unfamiliar with the program, but one thing I love about Dayton is that it’s big enough to have programs like Rebuilding Together Dayton, but small enough that they don’t hesitate to connect with you.

Rebuilding Together provides home repair services to local residents. The emphasis is on the elderly and disabled, but low-income homeowners might qualify as well. The services can be simple: installing a GFCI outlet to accommodate complex medical equipment in the home of a special needs baby. That might cost up to $100.00 per unit to install, and typically they are only installed around sinks- sources of water- so that’s about $300.00 for two in the kitchen and one in the bathroom, and it’s not complicated. But it is necessary. And for some families, $300.00 represents difficult situation.

Fred Dewinter
By Brett Bower and Jordan Thompson

Every person has his story. Some are more solemn than others, but all are stories, just the same. As Fred was speaking, we began to form an image of what his personality was like. He speaks with an unusual accent that is part southern and part urban, which we think is awesome. He’s humble and straightforward. Although he isn’t really the talkative type, he’s ready to tell his story.

Fred Dewinter has lived in Dayton for over 20 years, and he says that this city has been, for the most part, good to him. “I like Dayton a lot; it’s been good to me and my loved ones,” he stated. He said that he had seen a lot of changes over the last 18 years. Even though he didn’t elaborate, we understood a couple of the changes that he had implied, for example, many of Dayton’s jobs leaving. Then we asked him to name his favorite thing about Dayton. Fred told us that Daytonians are always willing to help out a person in need. We agreed with Fred when he said this, and we also feel that this is one of the most valued aspects about Dayton. …

Services might be extensive. They recently rebuilt a front porch and completed extensive roof repairs to a home that was damaged during Hurricane Ike. A complicated and expensive project that many of us would find daunting, even with insurance. For some, it’s truly an impossible situation.

That’s technically what Rebuilding Together Dayton does, but the real story here is in the lives that have changed because of the work, and Caitlin went to the creative writing class at Stivers to have students tell the stories of homeowners who have been helped by Rebuilding Together.

Margaret Harden
by Bryan Manger and Francesca Snyder

“I’ve never been one to conform . . . living in the city is absolutely refreshing,” Margaret Harden, who goes by “Charlie,” said about moving to Dayton from the suburbs. Charlie has lived in the Dayton area for 30 years and in the historic district of the city for 15. She has seen the neighborhood “evolve a lot” through her years there and has found it “interesting to watch.” Charlie’s home was chosen for the Christmas in April project. Seventy people, everyone from the Girl Scouts to the Air Force, from Miami Valley Hospital employees to interior designers, came around to help work on her two-story Victorian. “It was absolutely amazing . . . like lots of ants all over my house,” she said, her face lighting up at the memory. Since the project, she’s been “looking for a way to help, give something back”…

You have to wonder how these student’s lives will be enriched forever by this simple storytelling project- a direct and intimate understanding that “Everyone has a story, every story has value.” You are invited to share This Dayton Life and “an evening of storytelling” when the Stivers students present the homeowners with the completed This Dayton Life project:

The Homeowner’s Story
Everyone has a story, every story has value.

We brought together a group of Rebuilding Together Dayton’s past homeowners and a class of talented Creative Writing students from Stivers School for the Arts. The students conducted interviews then wrote stories about the people they met. The result of these meetings is a rich tapestry of living history from some of the cornerstones of Dayton’s neighborhoods.

Join us for an evening of storytelling as the students present these incredible stories to the homeowners for the first time.
Tuesday, December 8, 2009 at 6:00 pm
First Baptist Church of Dayton

Homes tell stories. What’s yours?

Contact Rebuilding Together Dayton, to find out how you can participate.

Photos: Rebuilding Together Dayton. Used with permission.