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Dayton’s First Her/History Awards Shine Brightly!

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Dayton is known for flight, code-breaking machines, cash registers & the initial fight for LGBT Marriage. Wait, what? Surprised? We all are.

An African-American lesbian couple from Dayton, Ohio sued for a whopping $100,000,000 in the 1970’s for the right to marry. They didn’t win, but the wheels were put in motion!

The richness of Dayton’s stories was celebrated in high fashion at the first ever Greater Dayton LGBTQ Her/History Awards on October 24th at the Brightside. Awards were given in multiple categories ranging from the ‘Fight for Gay Rights’ to ‘AIDS Activism.’

‘I had heard that San Francisco was recording their LGBT history so it would not be lost over time.’ Says Sue Elam, one of the founders of the awards. ‘ I thought, Dayton has a rich LGBT history, and we need to do the same.’

‘As Sue was working towards her vision, I was thinking along the same lines.’ Says Jerry Mallicoat. ‘We were complete strangers walking towards an protest downtown and struck up a conversation. It was meant to be. And what sealed the deal was the fact we shared a birthday!’ Mallicoat and Elam are both well-respected LGBT activists and advocates in the Dayton area. ‘We were on a path and we could see how taking time to interview Daytonians about their LGBT experiences and successes should be shared.’ Mallicoat goes on to say, ‘People were willing to share with us, and what we learned was so exciting and surprising. Dayton has a strong, active and connected gay community.’

A committee was formed to move forward with some kind of recognition of those in Dayton who have made a difference for the LGBT community. Melissa Rodriguez and Jordan Ailes were part of that committee. ‘It became such a family. We all worked together to make this happen.’ Says Rodriguez.  ‘We knew we could make something special out of this where people could network, meet and expand their lives through the Her/History awards.’Ailes added.And it worked.

All Awards need a catchy name…think Emmy or Oscar….for the Dayton LGBTQ+ community, it’s the RUBI Award, fondly named for Dayton’s Own RubiGirls. ‘We wanted a name that would encompass charity, bravery and community service. The RubiGirls epitomize that!’ says Jim McKinnon, archivist and committee member.

‘What I had envisioned,’ Elam shares, ‘was a series of markers on buildings around the city where important LGBT events took place. I had mentioned it to Mayor Whaley and she actually came back with the idea of a celebratory dinner. A place where we could acknowledge our accomplishments. It was genius!’

‘I knew we needed time, and when we settled on this idea, it was to close to June, which is Pride Month. I remembered that October is LGBTQ+ history month and thought maybe we could pull it off!’ Says Mallicoat. ‘It was risky, but as a group, more of a family, the committee was ready to see it though.’
The awards show shocked even the committee members. ‘So much love was in that room. All of us were exhausted, but together you could feel the appreciation and love from all attendees. Such a community.’ Rodriguez stated.

‘What struck me was the struggles of many in that room. Their stories were bought to light and people, especially young people, got to understand what the LGBTQ community has seen and been through. It was amazing!’
And it was sold-out….which also shocked the committee!

Recipients included the Neon Movies, Mary Wiseman, Dr. Robert L. Brandt Jr., Amanda Kayne, Larry and Clara Rezash, the Gatlyn-Dame Group, Mayor Nan Whaley among many others.

Stories were shared about losing friends to HIV, protests in and around Dayton, humble beginnings of organizations like Artemis and personal struggles for acceptance. Some of the stories caught the audience by surprise. ‘For me, it was emotional to relive some of those moments. There is still pain to deal with regarding religion, bigotry and suppression.’ Mallicoat said.

‘The stories told struck a chord. One of the audience members, Shane Juhl, an ally of the community, stopped me afterward to tell me he had no idea of the struggles and achievements of the Dayton area LGBTQ community. Having said that, it means a lot knowing he is there for us as a community! He gets why it’s so important.’

The Dayton LGBTQ community has much planned for the coming year with a Veterans recognition program in November as well as a health summit being planned.  The awards will be annual and Rodriguez assures, ‘We will knock it out of the ballpark next year. People loved this year, but they ain’t seen nothing yet!’ Ailes chimed in, ‘There are many more stories to tell. Military, businesses and others who will be elevated by sharing their journeys at the event. One participant put it like this, “Being in the room, all of us sharing a history, you felt like you belonged there. It was magical and I cannot wait to hear more.” ‘

If you are interested in getting involved with the committee contact [email protected]. And keep your ears open, as Sue Elam is looking into a LGBT Dayton History podcast.

Here’s the full list of this year’s recipients:

DAYTON=Love. It’s why we love Dayton!

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Anger. Fear. Disappointment. Concern. Care. Kindness. Revenge.
GRIEF. GRIEF. GRIEF.
It’s a rough word….its not one we do well. How do we grieve? Do we tell the world we are strong and we will survive? (We will.) Do we rise up and make our political voices heard? (We will.) Do we raise money and raise awareness? (We will!)

Do we hug our neighbors, hold their hands and cry together….WE MUST!

Dayton has had her share, no, MORE than her share of tribulations of late. Tornados, KKK…and now a mindless, stupid shooting. You can feel the tightness of the community, being stretched to the limit. Will we break? (We won’t.) It’s in us to move forward, together. WE ARE A FAMILY. Think about that…we are a FAMILY! A family made of all colors, all genders, all religions, all views & all LOVES! Dayton=Love! And despite the attempts of many, LOVE CONTINUES TO WIN IN OUR CITY!

Know these names…THEY ARE OUR FAMILY…Lois L. Oglesby, Saeed Saleh, Derrick R. Fudge, Logan Turner, Megan Betts, Nicholas P. Cumer, Thomas J. McNichols, Beatrice N. Warren-Curtis & Monica E. Brickhouse.

They were enjoying OUR CITY. OUR VIBE, OUR LOVE. As we move forward together, we must continue where they cannot. We have to take the time to grieve, not immediately push these feelings aside. They are in us for a reason. To make us move forward together. To remind us of them…those in our family, now gone.

Today we see a world where what we believed to be true, isn’t. We see a trust that is broken. We see a time when what was clear is now murky. The only cure is grieving…..GRIEF makes us resilient. It creates a strength unlike any other we will know. It makes us lean into our brothers and sisters for support. It takes us to a place of seeing we cannot succeed alone as well as we can with our FAMILY!

We cannot bring them back. We can’t. Hardest lesson to accept. We cannot erase what has happened to us…our FAMILY. We cannot reason with irrational. But, we can do the one thing we have the power to do today, tomorrow and for our days ahead….we can LIVE our LIVES in hopes of making the FUTURE of this FAMILY, of our Beloved DAYTON better…..and brighter. God Bless all of them and their loved ones. Never, never forget, but together let’s move forward! WE ARE DAYTON…..and DAYTON=LOVE!

8 ‘Girls,’ One Crown….Miss Rubicon Returns.

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Dayton’s Beloved RubiGirls

There’s a different kind of ‘Game of Thrones’ happening this weekend at Masque. For the first time since 1996, the RubiGirls will pick a Queen in the Miss Rubicon, 2019 drag pageant. The event, Sunday May 19th, will be a pageant unlike any other in Dayton. This pageant focuses squarely on camp and crazy! Categories range from ‘Parade of Nations’ to ‘Gem City Evening Gown.
‘Our theme this year is UNITED. It’s fitting considering the environment many our facing.’ Says Francine Du Bois, Miss Rubicon 1990. ‘The contestants start in a parade of national costumes, move into state costumes, do their chosen talents, and end the show in Gem City Evening Wear! Knowing the RubiGirls, I assure you the costumes will be over the top…and possibly ridiculous.’

Miss Rubicon 1991, India Summer will be on hand.

The Pageant got its start in 1989 on Rubicon Street when the emerging RubiGirls were in their mid-twenties. ‘We hadn’t raised a dime at that time…it was all about fun and madness.’ says contestant Fonda Peters. ‘Here we are in 2019, about to celebrate helping groups around the area, state and country with $2,000,000 in total donations. It’s such a landmark!’

‘I see it this way, the RubiGirls have remained inspirational through all kinds of trying times. For many of us, it has been 35 years of performing.’ says Anita Beer, Miss Rubicon 1993. ‘We have remained committed to helping folks off all walks of life.’

The pageant kicks off at 1:30pm, doors open at 1:00pm. The crowning will take place around 4 at the after party ‘tea dance.’ The pageant cost $25 for the show and the tea dance. Tickets for just tea dance are $10.

‘Tea Dances’ are growing in popularity across the country, and Dayton needs one.’ says Penni Sillin, Miss Rubicon 1995. ‘We are hoping it takes off so it can be more consistent in the community. They are a great way to make Sunday a true Funday!’

Pia and Fonda looking for fun this weekend!

The pageant has drawn 8 contestants in hopes of winning the crown. ‘8 is really perfect. And with the 5 judges in place, it will be a fair, fun and unforgettable night.’ Says India Summer, Miss Rubicon 1991. ‘All of the living Rubicon Queens* will be there. And even more exciting, many of the past performers are returning to say hello! (*Miss Rubicon, 1992, Esther Price passed away a few years ago.) I can guarantee she’ll be watching from upstairs, rooting these girls on. She loved a good pageant!’

Jackie O has a real chance of taking the crown.

‘We are so hopeful that we bring in a crowd as we are using our funds to sponsor AIDS/LifeCycle. https://www.aidslifecycle.org. 2 of the RubiGirls, Annie Biotix and Pussy Galore are riding in the California event. They need our support.’ says Lupe Valezz, the reigning Miss Rubicon.

The RubiGirls are also hopeful that the pageant remains a mainstay of the Dayton Drag scene.
‘We have expanded to so many events around the area like trivia, bingo and brunches, it is fun to do something more geared to drag. That’s how this whole thing got started, and it needs to be celebrated.’ Dana Sintell, the first Miss Rubicon chimes in. ‘ I think anytime you have a group of friends, showing off to the crowds and putting their best face forward….it’s got to be a blast!’

Interested in a little Dayton Drag fun? Go to rubigirls.com for tickets.

Plans for New Dog Park Get Tails a’Wagging!

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As Dayton continues its incredible resurgence, it’s apparent no dog will be left behind. A new dog park, more on the multi-use front, is coming to Steve Whalen Boulevard and Wyoming Street. 21,000 sq. feet await your mutt in this expanse. ‘Right now it’s one big space that we are using to design this great neighborhood amenity.’ says Mike Schommer, Walnut Hills Neighborhood President.

‘With Wagtown Trails, who will incorporate three trail heads in the park, we have room for a great addition to the area.’

The plan started in 2017, when Schommer met with Mayor Whaley and pitched the idea. ‘We spoke about creating a healthy community, and realized we had bike paths, and we weren’t living in a food desert. What we didn’t have was a multi-use park area, especially one for the pets.’

Beth Miller, who has put Dayton on the map when it comes to dog-friendly, adds, ‘What has been evolving in our community is the use of parks for our canine friends. When this project moves forward (Find more info here) it will become part of the bigger picture in Dayton. That vision includes the use of sponsors, artists and community members as part of what’s available in our area for pet owners and lovers. We have a QR system now that can be used to enlighten folks on what’s available today, and updates for the future.’

It takes a village for sure, in these types of endeavors. ‘There is no way a neighborhood can do this alone. Linden Heights neighborhood got on-board which propelled the project forward. When you get the City, the neighborhoods and the grassroots people invested, it makes a big difference.’ says Schommer.
Schommer is a Get-It-Done leader. Along with his team at Walnut Hills, and hand-in-hand with Linden Heights, they see momentum for their future projects.


‘This model, which is based on best practices, will be an easy-to-repeat concept for other neighborhoods looking to improve their community’s health and well-being. I owe a lot to Aaron Glett, Walnut Hills Secretary; Robert Harrison from Community Health, and Mary Loper & Carl Leifbacher of Linden Heights. This was a community effort for sure,’ says Schomer!

The park is unique for a Dayton area dog park as it has large, mature trees, is easily visible and can accommodate a large number of pets. The park, which is recognized by the City of Dayton, will actually have a trail lead that takes dog-parents to Cleveland Park, which also has a wooded space and beautiful vistas.

‘It really comes down to time and energy. Walnut Hills and Linden Heights are opening an opportunity for the entire Dayton Community. Seeing the revitalization of these parks for our animal friends is quite inspiring.’ Says Miller.

And Stay tuned, canine lovers. There is more in Dayton’s future for the dog lover, as Wagtown continues to grow in the city.

For more Info on Wagtown


For more info on Walnut Hills Neighborhood

For more Info on Linden Heights Neighborhood

Winslow Homer! Maxfield Parrish! Andrew Wyeth! & Dana Sintell? DAI Trivia is back!

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If you haven’t been to a DAI trivia night, you really are missing out. Another one has been scheduled for March 1st, and Dana Sintell, Dayton’s SweetHeart, is set to return to host the hijinx.

Peter Saul, Self-Portrait, 2013, acrylic on canvas.

The exhibit coming to the DAI is one for the ages. Founded in 1825, the National Academy of Design has been a leading artistic voice for America. The upcoming exhibition will feature (are you sitting down?)…100 paintings by 79 artists. The works tell the story of the National Academy. Visitors will get to see masterworks of John Singer Sargent, Parrish, Homer, Robert Henri, Isabel Bishop, Wyeth…and so many more!

Katherine Siegwarth, Assistant Curator of Collections and Exhibitions at the Dayton Art Institute shared, ‘This will be the debut venue for this major exhibit. The exhibit is organized by the American Federation of Arts and the National Academy of Design.’
As many Daytonians have experienced, the Trivia Nights that follow these exhibits has become something of tradition. ‘We strive to create programming that is accessible, mission based, and FUN! Trivia embodies all three!’ Siegwarth adds, ‘ We are so fortunate to have Dana Sintell host these events. Her humor and enthusiasm create the perfect atmosphere. It is quite memorable for our guests!’
‘I find being in drag and standing among the beautiful works of art at DAI kind of a juxtaposition. Somehow, odd as it is, it fits and its fun!’ says Ms. Sintell, (aka Josh Stucky.)

‘I love that it is growing and bringing more and more people through the exhibits. I love DAI, proud to be a part of it. This is just a way of saying to the community, you can enjoy art, and relate to it, no matter your background or lifestyle!’ Dana can’t do it alone! The partnership with Pepper Sprout Trivia Productions is essential.

‘Be warned!’ says Heather Leppla. Member Relations Manager. ‘There is a cap to this event. We have sold-out each and every time.’ Keep in mind, tickets include admission to the special exhibition For America: Paintings from the National Academy of Design; food and drinks available for purchase; trivia games…and even a nod to 100 years of DAI, which was incorporated February 28th, 1919!!

The Dayton Art Institute plans in 2019 to have ‘100 ways to Celebrate’ their big birthday. How, you ask?? Hints: Impressionism. (Uh-OH!). A nod to 1969’s lunar landing. (What??). 19th century jewelry. (Get out of Town!!). And much, much more.
Check out the DAI website.

Order your tickets for trivia….ASAP!
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To attend:
Date: Friday, March 1, 5:30-8:00 p.m.
Location: Shaw Gothic Cloister

WHERE IN ‘THE WORLD’ YOU CAN FIND GREAT ASIAN FOOD!

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‘I can’t find it!’

‘I see it but Ican’t get over there!’

‘My GPS says I’m Here?’

Oh, the many remarks on your way to ‘Taste of the World’ restaurant in Moraine. (400 Fuyao Avenue, Moraine, OH 45439.) But rest assured, persistence pays off in this well-appointed, authentic aAsian restaurant. Seating is plentiful, with modern lighting and big comfy booths for larger groups.

 

Tucked away near the Fuyao plant, ‘Taste’ provides a spicy and scrumptious tribute to all things Northern China. The decor is bright and inviting, and the large private rooms provide the Lazy Susan, for the ‘family share’ we all love.
Martinis, wine and some great Asian beer choices, give the perfect pairing to a dinner full of fresh ingredients and crispy veggies.

I am no food expert, but we filled our Lazy Susan with samples galore, just for this article!
From the top, we wanted to make sure we delved into some different flavors…and they were plentiful. We chose three starters, and be warned, spicy here is SPICY. The east peking meat pie is a great jump-in, with crispy edges and flavorful smooth center, the Szechaun sauce gives it the perfect kick. Don’t miss the Sichuan fried green beans, touch of salt, blackened edges, and great ‘snap,’ they were a bug yum! We through in one traditional item, some hot-sour soup. It was pleasantly BOTH. If it’s not to your ‘heat’ level, just ask….they have a remedy for that!

Next we chose a seafood, fish, pork and beef option. The shredded pork, which came with garlic sauce, was prepared to perfection. The aroma alone was delicious. Then we sampled the sliced beef in hot chili oil, and sampling was about all I could handle. Great flavor, and then plenty of water! Next, we had the baked soft shell crab with rice cakes, and they were the perfect follow-up to the spicier beef option. Crispy, and flavorful, the crab was simple and easy to eat. Lastly, and by far the favorite was the braised whole fish. If I were to ask for seconds on anything, this is the winner. Salted, buttery and melt in your mouth good, I commented to the waitress how I found it to be, and she said ‘my favorite too!’ Try it….wow!

The menu really is extensive. It goes from appetizers to noodles, beef to pork, chicken to seafood, dry pots to pastries. Your bases are covered.

As a favor, to you our faithful readers, I am giving you the ‘easy way to ‘Taste.” If you know how to get on West Dorothy Lane toward Moraine, you’ve got it made. Take West Dorothy Lane, past that giant Wal-Mart. Turn left on Encrete Lane. Follow Encrete for about 1/2 mile to Holye Place. Turn right…and there it is!

It’s tucked away, secluded and a ‘World’ away from most Asian places! ENJOY!

Springfield…The Champion City…Is a trip worth taking!

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In the alpha-trip series, we have tackled the letters U(rbana), N(ew Carlisle) and X(Xenia). Let’s hit 70 east and make a stop in the ‘Home City’ of Springfield. Before we get into the excitement, that is Clark County’s seat, a little disclaimer, I was born here…so it’s already home to me.

Hop, skip and a jump to the ‘Home City!’

Many folks don’t realize the importance Springfield played throughout Ohio’s history, but even today, glimpses of its past come beaming through. I have compiled a little day trip just for MostMetro readers to get the best of the best in Springfield.

Starting your day in Springfield, head over for breakfast to the Olympic to fill up for your big day. This greek diner is a little treasure hidden among a plethora of restaurants on Bechtle Avenue. They have quick, friendly service and feature some really great omelettes (try the Gyro Omelette…yum!), interesting soups (my mom loves the lemon rice soup) and are vegetarian friendly. It can be a bit crowded but rest assured you are leaving full…portions are large.

You have to see this to believe it.

First stop on our whirlwind trip is the Hartman Rock Garden, which unless you have seen it, you cannot explain it. Open 365 days a year, from dusk to dawn, this folk art phenomena, is chock full of Ben Hartman’s rock creations. In the garden you will see creations ranging from detailed figurines to gorgeous fish ponds. The garden is literally constructed of hundreds of thousands of stones. 90 plus years in the making, the garden was renovated in 2010, and it is magnificent to walk through. The story goes that Ben constructed the garden for his wife as a ‘Garden of Love,’ once you visit it, you’ll feel the same! The garden is located at 1905 Russel Avenue.

Hopping back in the car, let’s head to the Heritage Center. The building alone is stunning, and inside awaits archives, bios and scaled models. The Romanesque building dates to 1890 when it was a marketplace, and the admission is FREE! To really get a feel for Springfield’s role in America’s growth, the museum features how the city helped shape the nation. Check it out at 117 S. Fountain Ave.
And one more before lunch.

The arts are alive in SmoA!

Small, quaint and oh, so perfect is Springfield’s Art Museum. Let’s face it, Americans love their art in small doses…and this is the winner. Situated in beautiful Cliff Park, the museum features ever-changing artwork and a fun, scenic Sculpture Walk. When I was there last, Charlie and Edie Harper’s permanent exhibit was a fave. Filled with classrooms and activities, you can see why this is such a gem! The museum is at 107 Cliff Park Rd.

Hungry? Right up the street is Seasons Bistro and Grille. It’s an excellent choice for lunchtime in the city. A great wine selection awaits in this restaurant featuring local fare, a constantly rotating menu, and waitresses that aim to please. Mom and I enjoyed the bibimbap and Bison Burger on or recent visit. It’s vibe is unique and edgy, but it never forgets its clientele. We had an apple turnover at our lunch’s end…and yes, order it!

Frank Lloyd got it Wright on Springfield.

After lunch, comes a real treat…a visit to Frank Lloyd Wright’s Westcott House at 85 Greenmount Ave. The property, now back to its original condition and design, is so inspired, I feel guilty giving away any details. Just know that the furnishings, the accessories, the tours, the entirity is a 10 out of 10. The house is one of Wright’s greatest masterpieces and to know it is only 35 minutes away should excite.
Alright outdoorsy fans….I am sure you have heard of the Fair at New Boston, which takes place in George Rogers Clark Park. Stuffed with history, including the ‘alleged’ birthplace of Tecumseh, the park has seen many a battle, including the Battle of Peckuwe, which was the largest in the American Revolution west of the Alleghenies. The labyrinth of trails is extensive and and the nature preserve is beautiful.

Cecil and Lime outdoor patio.

Time to have dinner and wrap it up. I have to give a plug to one of my favorite since I was youngster, the Hickory Inn….their pizza is still one I crave from time to time! (at 652 north Limestone St.)
However, we are going to go a couple blocks north of there and hit Cecil and Lime. Live music, a nice atmosphere, and attention to detail make this a good choice in Springfield. The variety of food on the menu matched with well-prepared food keep us coming back. In the Warmer months, Cecil and Lime cannot be beat with their outdoor seating. There is an elegance to the place, and it continues to evolve! You will find it at 227 East Cecil Street.

 

Great stop for a Beer.

As we head back home, we have to stop at Mother Stewart’s Taproom to share a beer in Springfield’s brewing company. Located at 109 West North Street, Mother Stewart’s offers about 8-10 different beers, from Lagers to Witbiers. The interior of the place is rustic and perfect for events. Speaking of events, they have a ton…so check out their Facebook Page for info.

Time to hit the road for home…..until we venture out again…

A Tour of Dayton’s Holiday Window Displays

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In the 1700’s, in the city of London, a tailor decided to place large glass windows on the front of his shop. Shop owners and neighboring folks thought his store was garish and brash. They found his store showy, and inappropriate…until the first holiday season when he decorated those windows as a celebration. Lights, a tree, and ribbons of bold red and dark green filled the space. My, oh my, how opinions changed, and a tradition was born…the Christmas Display window!

Ask any Daytonian about their own memories of Holiday Window displays and the word ‘Rike’s’ jumps from their lips. Luckily for all of us, the Schuster Center still gives us the thrill of those fun-filled, animated displays. As a 56 year old man, I still get a sentimental feeling when I see them, and a sense of wonder when I watch children light up around them.

With the decline of retail downtown, many had doubted that display windows would ever have a renaissance. Think Again! I decided to throw my dogs in the car and go in search of illuminated, lavish, exciting holiday windows…and I found plenty. Here a few highlights:

The CO (formerly DVAC,) capitalizes on their artsy edge, with lush trees adorned with a multitude of fantastic handmade ornaments. It’s truly a winter wonderland. (118 N Jefferson St)

Ghostlight Coffee goes all homey and warm this year. The steamy windows, brick walls and simple tree take us back to holidays of yore. (1201 Wayne Ave)

 

 

Clash nailed it this year…it’s color, form and light set it apart. As I went to snap this photo, one downtown ambassador said, ‘Prettiest window I’ve ever seen.’ Can’t argue that. (521 E 5th St)

 

Windows should highlight what you sell, Texas Beef and Cattle Company strategically placed their tree where we all can see the BBQ and Shiner Beer. Smart!! (1101 W Third St)

Brim always thinks differently, and it pays off. Among the snow and lights, a white tiger looks on the winter scene with eager eyes. It’s intriguing, fun and 100% eye-catching. (464 E 5th St)

Almost like a mini-movie set, the color and nostalgia at Baker Salvage brings back Christmas Past. I was so excited to happen upon this gem, and loved the warmth of the lighting.(31 S St Clair St)

When a sleigh just seems cumbersome, the folks at Press have a bicycle in wait for the jolly old elf. If you’ve ever wondered what Press sells…the window answers all! (257 Wayne Ave)

It is always awesome to see painted windows at holiday time, especially when they are done well. Crafted and Cured has a plethora of winter scenes adorning their establishment. Take a minute and appreciate them all. (531 Wayne Ave)

Animated elves, Mrs. Claus and an awkward baby Jesus make the display at the RubiGirl Clubhouse eerie and odd. A conversation piece, the window has stirred some controversy…as usual. (1207 Wayne Ave)

I have to include Omega Music…as the dogs and I walked by, I did a double-take, looking at their trees. Shout out to the creative genius who used 45 rpm adapters as ornaments! Perfect. And the sweet little snowman is a great addition.

Luna never lets us down, no matter the season. White trees and gorgeous living plants make a pristine, upbeat holiday window. Bright and lively, their display connects. (261 Wayne Ave)

Luna never lets us down, no matter the season. White trees and gorgeous living plants make a pristine, upbeat holiday window. Bright and lively, their display connects. (261 Wayne Ave)

Next time you are out and about, heading toward a thriving downtown Dayton, look around. You will be amazed at the explosive return of the cherished display window. To the window dressers out there, thank you for making the holidays so much brighter!

Iconic DAI Meets Iconic DANA….for Trivial Matters!!

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Everyone loves trivia, and when you bring one of Dayton’s most beloved celebrities into host, you are sure to have a hoot. The Dayton Art Institute is hosting a very special night of trivia on Friday July, 13th, which includes the current Yousuf Karsh: American Portraits exhibit. “This is a fun way to get people into the museum to see this astounding set of photographs.” says DAI board member, Joshua Stucky. “It has been getting rave reviews.”

And speaking of rave reviews, enter the hostess, Dana Sintell, Dayton’s enduring drag hostess and comedienne. “This is right up my alley!” says Ms. Sintell, a 34 year veteran of the Dayton Drag culture. “My whole life has been trivial….and I would imagine I have lived through some of these historical events being asked about.”

Sintell, best known as the hostess and voice of the RubiGirls, couldn’t believe her luck in being asked. “I think the Museum knows a living work of art when they see one! The Venus Di Milo and I were good friends for God’s sake!”

The trivia night will be a full one. The Karsh exhibit will open to ticket holders at 6:30pm, followed by trivia in the Leo Bistro at 7:30pm. The event concludes at 9:00pm. Delicious food will be provided by Fusian with a cash bar available.

Sintell promises to keep things light and fun. “Trivia is supposed to be exciting and entertaining. I know some of the staff at the DAI and I bet you anything they have been looking long and hard for some great questions. This is going to be a real challenge!!” When asked about whether she will give a performance that night, Sintell quipped, “Ummm, have you met me?”

The event costs $10 for DAI members and $20 for non-members.
Tickets? Click below.

www.etix.com/ticket/p/7002366/trivia-night-dayton-the-dayton-art-institute-family-and-education-programs-

AlphaTrips X & N….A TwoSome of Short-Excursions….

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After the popularity of Alpha-Trips, our quick trips in and around the area, I thought it was time to up the ante and give you a whiz-bang twosome.

Here are some ideas for the following areas, that you can do in a day:

Letter X: Xenia

For anyone that has lived in the Dayton area long-term, you may be thinking, there are things to do and see in Xenia? Seriously? And the surprising answer is yes. Known around the US as the city that begins with an ‘X’, is truly marks the spot for some unknown excitement and fun food.  Xenia has long been marked as the home of the tornado, a twister they can’t seem to shake. But there is much more to this little burg that awaits you!

Head over for the history, and there is plenty of it. Check out the Greene County Historical Society, which is basically comprised of three buildings.You will find an old cabin there, the Galloway, which was relocated to the city itself and answers many of the questions about the great chief Tecumseh and his friendship with the family.I have long been obsessed with Tecumseh and his desire to save his Native Families in the area. The guides in the cabin have a multitude of answers to your questions. Many artifacts and historical items await you at the Galloway.

Next, you will find the Victorian Town House, which is chock full of antiques and memorabilia from the best of days in Xenia. Preserved beautifully and presented well, its a fun trip down memory lane. Lastly, a brick building housing more Greene County historic items, as well as a slew of pictures of the infamous tornado completes the history lesson perfectly.

After getting your lesson, grab a bike, as Xenia’s bikeways (Greene Way Bike Trails)are considered by many the ‘best in Ohio.’ You can ride this mostly flat, gorgeous stretch for miles. Recommended is the trip from Spring Valley to Yellow Springs. Xenia’s stretch, is NOT to be missed as the trail follows tree covered spaces and a soft rolling stream (the Little Miami) that eventually forms Clifton Gorge and John Bryan.

So, now you are hungry….and I have to say it, go to Nick’s.

If you have read my articles previously, you know I aim for the fancy, but Nicks’s does the bar food thing perfectly. Grab a Menage’a’Trois (sandwich that is) or the Sexy Club (again a sandwich). Both are sure to please. Add in some wings (chick’s strippers) and fries….and since you’ve been biking, grab aan ice cold Great Lakes draft. It’s fun and it’s definitely satisfying. Overall: ‘X’tremely interesting history and great recreation in Xenia!

Letter N: New Carlisle

 

How many times have you seen the sign for New Carlisle on 70 and thought ‘wonder what’s up there?’ A lot actually! Head into town early and stop at the ‘World-Famous’ Mel-o-Dee restaurant. The Mel-O-Dee has been revived since its close encounter with a funnel cloud recently, but from the ashes, the same delicious food we all know and love. For breakfast, you will hear people oinking about the Mel-O-Dee Chops and Eggs, a center cut chop with two eggs. I have long though they have great coffee, and still am trying to figure out what brand it is.

They do lunch and dinner well too!
Off you go to find some bourbon. BOURBON? Yep, that’s right. New Carlisle is home to the Indian Creek Distillery.

The tiny family-owned business is perfect for touring, and taking in the beautiful setting. It’s literally like a postcard, it is so picturesque. There is a great history of the land, how the distillery got started and it’s ‘best kept secret’ status revealed. Great visit for all…check it out!

 

Stop in Penny Lane for a quick coffee. It’s a cute. quaint, quintessential coffee and tea shop.  They make a great latte, and the service is on-point!

Then what, you ask?

New Carlisle is home to MVG, Meadow View Growers, many put it at the top of the ‘Greenhouse’ lists in the area. Check out the big chair for photos, and make sure you say hi to the goats. MVG is more than just plants, its a destination at this point. For serious gardeners, you will find an extensive number of exotics…I bought 3 of the Flamingo plants!!


A little more food or beer maybe? Ok….571 Grill House is your spot! They have 17 beers on draft, or did at this writing, and some really yummy food. One thing that will floor you is the great atmosphere here. You certainly see why it’s a treasure for New Carlisle. We had a relaxing visit, sharing stories, beers and great wings. The service was sweet, and informative about the draft choices, and menu options. Overall: New Carlisle mixes it up for newbies to their town…it’s nice, new and nostalgic.

Next time, we visit H: Hocking Hills and Y: Yellow Springs.

Keep traveling folks…it’s fun around here!

Editor’s Note:

 

If you missed Josh’s earlier Alpha Trip check out U is for Urbana

 

The Right Corner: How A Downtown Mainstay Suddenly Boomed!

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You walk into 105 East Third Street and there is a conversation among a small family of friends about still having a ‘Christmas Tree  up in my living room.’ Everyone laughs. The bartender, today it’s DanaThompson, a sweetheart of a guy who is beloved by his patrons, mixes another vodka tonic and smiles. ‘This is what we do. We share our secrets.’

The Right Corner is
having a renaissance.


Placed perfectly for the revitalization of Third Street, its booming.

‘We are a neighborhood bar. Truly. It’s interesting to see the change in our clientele over the years. Suddenly, everyone stops in. It’s great for us.’ Dana says.

‘It’s all about family here.’ says Amanda Kayne, one of Right Corner’s disciples and sometimes performers. ‘The word family is true. We all care about each other, and this is our place to keep in touch.’ As I talk with her, she laughs with the folks around and in the background Joan Jett blares out ‘Crimson and Clover’ from the jukebox. ‘I try to come here 7 days a week.’ she goes on, ‘I don’t want to miss anything or anyone.’

The Right Corner is rich in its history. In 1994, ‘Changes,’ another downtown hot spot, which sat across from Spaghetti Warehouse, was purchased by Reynolds and Reynolds. The owners, in turn, bought the space that would become the Corner. ‘We have a lot fo the former ‘Changes’ in here.’ says Dana. He points out a phone booth, a gorgeous wall relief, and then the stunner…’see these mirrors that make up our back wall….that was the dance-floor at ‘Changes.’

(What the……I remember in my youth dancing on that wall…uh ,that floor….and it lit up!!)

Its’ apparent that the Corner knows what works. Little has truly changed over the years….but the crowds are bigger. ‘In the last 3 years, we have seen a huge uptick. It’s been amazing. Especially Fridays.’ Dana goes on, as he mixes a Makers and 7….this time for me! They have an amazing Happy Hour….M-F 1p-8p, uh-huh, 1p-8p.

‘Many people are coming to realize the bar is more of a neighborhood bar. We like strays and straights.’ says Jay, a regular. ‘By far, this place has the friendliest atmosphere, no pretense, down-to-Earth clients, and the best bartenders.’ Certainly, the bartenders are the most experienced. Between the 3, there is 110 years of bartending.  Dana quips, ‘Young people walk in and see an older bartender and they roll their eyes. Then I make them their favorite drink….it changes their tune real quick!’

Right Corner awaits Fire Blocks District

For many in the Fire Blocks District, it’s all about growth and a new entertainment area. For the Right Corner it’s ‘Something we look forward to, but we like who we are and what we are. Everything can change around us, we want to be the ‘Right Corner!’

Another frequent visitor, Robert, chimes in. ‘There is always someone to chat with here. I know for most of us, if we have friends from out of town, this is where we bring them. they love it! Its so respectful, even our mothers love it in here!’

Subtle and modest, the Corner has a much-loved patio that sits oddly in a parking lot. A pool table, popcorn machine and television are the entertainment…unless it’s a show night. ‘We have great drag shows, three to four times a year. Great stars like Amanda Kayne and Dana Sintell.’ says the bartender.

The Right Corner does one thing very well…it brings on the family vibe. They have monthly birthday parties for their fans. ‘We give cards and we make a special dinner for monthly birthdays. It’s important to make people feel cared for.’

Right Corner’s drinks are affordable and amazing!

Barbara has been a fan for a while. ‘My husband (who passed away last year) and I have been coming here for 23 years. I have always felt loved here. I love this place. So much so, they call me ‘Norm!’ Appropriate for a place many have called a ‘gay Cheers.’

As I finish my Makers, I begin to realize how much I love it here. It’s warm, and inviting. You see members of the WGI and stars from area theater in here. You sense that its special, a strange kind of Shangri-La.

Perhaps its Anthony who hits the nail on the head. (by the way, Thanks Anthony for buying my drink! That was way too kind!) He says it like this, ‘Not only is it a happy, friendly family, the Right Corner is community and civic minded. They care for anyone who walks in the door.’
Yep. A neighborhood bar…and they are neighborly!

 

The Right Corner is open 1pm to 2:30a 365 days a year.
Check out their Facebook Page!

AlphaTrips! This time – URBANA!

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I have always liked close, fun road trips. This season, I am introducing AlphaTrips! I plan on visiting a city or town around Dayton from letters A to Z! Each locale will have some great stuff to see, eat and do. Just to take care of one of harder letters in the alphabet, I thought, I’m checking off the ‘U’ and hitting URBANA! Where, you ask? URBANA, that elusive town right up Route 68 North.

U is for Urbana, a fun place to discover!

The Man on the Monument Greets visitors!

The drive is a quick and easy, about 45 minutes, east on 70 and North on 68. As you make your way into town, you will immediately be taken by their fabulous center square, surrounded by tiny shoppes, markets and restaurants. You will see ‘The Man on the Monment’ which is a full-length figure of a dismounted Union cavalry officer with his head bowed in grief for his fallen comrades.

Grab a quick coffee at Depot Coffee. Coffee is great and the space is art-filled and funky.

Head to the Champaign Aviation Museum. I know many Daytonians love all things flight, and here, in this modest museum which houses some great WW2 examples. Some of the planes are in process of being restored and there are knowledgeable folks there who can tell you all you need to know.

Great examples from WW2 at the Aviation Museum.

From there, grab a quick mid-morning pastry at Teabaggers! They’re open Mon – Thurs 8am – 3pm and Sat 9:05am – 2pm .

Now, weather permitting, head to the bizarre ‘Cedar Bog!’

Mysterious, beautiful and whimsical..the Bog is one of a kind!

**Note, they are doing some work on walkways, check website to see what parts are up and running. Ohio’s first Nature Preserve, Cedar Bog packs a fun punch with it’s mile long boardwalk that winds through rare flowers and animal habitats. It is believed that Mastodons fed here….no really! And persistent rumors of a Big-Foot like creature make Bog Stories fun for kids.

 

Paridiso doesn’t disappoint!

Lunchtime! And back downtown you go to Cafe Paradiso. View the monument on the square as you enjoy some Tuscan inspired foods. Outdoor dining is an option in this ‘best kept secret’ featuring homemade sauces and artisan desserts. Impressive and exciting, it’s fun to find good Italian food in West Central Ohio.

 

Last minute shopping is good idea in Urbana. Kaleidoscope, Fruit Salad and Boston have the antiques, Yutzy’s has all the cheeses you can imagine and

Downtown Divas has the women’s clothes.

Lastly, after a day of doing Urbana, check out a little fun food from Fusion 40.83.

The name comes from the map coordinates of the restaurant. Known for their trout, Fusion 40.83 has a good bunch of beers as well.

Start the car. It’s the first of the alpha-trips…and U are on your way! U should get to Urbana. U will enjoy it!

Well, They’re Movin’ On Up! Double 18 Lounge Is About to Change Brown Street!

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We all know Timothy’s, it has been part of Dayton’s landscape since 1965. We all know the legends of the nightlong parties, the raucous crowd and the headache inducing ‘the Wall’ signature cocktail. But, look out UD, you are about to get elevated!

On the second floor of the much-beloved Timothy’s, is the entrance to Dayton’s newest, and arguably, most beautiful ultra-lounge. Finished with California reclaimed wood, subway tile and wrought iron trestle work, the Double 18 Lounge transcends the normal UD bump and grind. “This gives people an alternative to Tim’s downstairs. It’s definitely a different vibe.” says Marty Brown. Along with business partner Paul Kennell, Brown has a vision of something nicer in the building. “Even the bathrooms are great up here.” And they are.

Everything about the space has a certain elegance, and they have thought it through. “When you enter, you will see a neon sign (which is being reconditioned in Cincinnati) that we found when we uncovered the old space. The neon blinks Double 18 Lounge, which was it’s original name years and years ago!” Brown stated

Windows in the lounge make a huge difference, allowing amazing views of Patterson Homestead, and then there’s the new deck! “Yes, this balcony style deck off the back, is 1200 square feet, with a spectacular view of campus!” The balcony is crazy big, and you can see the martinis and manhattans flowing on a summer night…perfect spot to chill.

“We will have live music, acoustical style. You know, more like a lounge, where Tim’s will maintain with their DJ’s!”

What else is different upstairs? Food….a fun combination of sliders (10 varieties) and some interesting sides from Tim’s Tater Tots to Fried Banana Peppers…YUM!
Brown shared that the hours look to be Wednesday-Friday, opening at 4pm and Saturday, opening at noon. They are also looking into Happy Hour ideas. The opening of the lounge is set for sometime during the week of March 5th!

Since taking the reins of Timothy’s in 1996, Brown and Kennell have seen Brown Street boom! “Everyone down here seems to be doing well. It’s great to see so much business.”
The renovation of Double 18 has been mastered by Moda 4 and Greater Dayton Construction Group.

From someone who went to UD, I can assure you, this place is a game changer for Brown Street. Oh, but if you are a Tim’s fanatic, fear not…it’s exactly as you left it!
For more information call 937.222.7666 or follow their progress at Timothysbar.com

The Grande Dame of Ohio LGBT Film Fests Returns to the Neon!

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For Jonathan Mcneal, LGBT films are as vital now as they were the first year when he and four sponsors presented Dayton’s now iconic festival. ‘Look around. We are under attack again, and that means being vocal, being clear and being strong. Our hope is to educate and build community through the film festival!’

Dayton’s LGBT film festival, a much-respected, much-antipated event, is the longest running LBBT  film festival in Ohio.
In it’s 12th year, the festival has one helluva line-up this year. ‘We have some must-sees,’ says McNeal.
‘God’s Own Country‘ is really amazing.’ Indiewire wrote about the film ‘…..It’s a British Brokeback but better…’ One film ‘Rebels on Pointe‘ will actually get two showings due to its overwhelming popularity.

The Dayton LGBT Film Festival runs from October 13-15th. The dates are not by chance. ‘I learned early on that October works best. Films premiere in mid-summer. We want to get what’s hot and fresh. And honestly, we moved from September because Oktoberfest and other festivals are just too much to compete with!’ McNeal adds.
The films are only part of the big weekend. There will be gay-themed items for sale from Agnes and Orson Gifts, and some very special guests. ‘We have six guests attending this year. 3 from SENSITIVITY TRAINING. 1 from ALASKA IS A DRAG. 1 from CURMUDGEONS. 1 from SOMETHING NEW. It’s incredible to see that many folks involved in film-making coming to Dayton. So proud of that!’ (**Spoiler, the actress/guest from Sensitivty Training is from Beavercreek…a local star!)

Sponsorships have grown exponentially from the early days. ‘We have had some sponsors, square one salon and the priority board, that have been involved since the get-go. They had faith in me and the Dayton Community. This year, we are excited to add Westminster Financial and AARP to the mix!’
The festival has had consistent growth and festival passes sell out quickly. The crowds are diverse, and although there are still some in the community who have the ‘not gay, no way’ mentality, that sentiment seems to be changing.
This is an interesting year for the film festival in many ways. ‘5 of the feature films are by women! Our opening film has big names like Bette Midler and LaVerne Cox. And the opening night will end with a great party at Mudlick Tavern.’
The kick-off party, sponsored by Neon Aficionados Lisa Hanuaer and Sue Spiegel, is a great opportunity to discuss the opening film, have a drink and meet the guests. ‘People love the party. It is a great community builder.’

For McNeal, a dozen years after taking his acclaimed RubiGirl Documentary around the LGBT film fest circuit, it feels great to share his vision of a more diverse, more accepting world here at home….in Dayton.

For More information on The Dayton LGBT Film Festival, go to DAYTONLGBT.COM.

Highly Popular Classes return to Agnes and Orson!

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In a world of stuff to buy, Agnes and Orson Gifts and Goods will open up their studio again to offer their most popular classes this season. ‘There are so many fantastic boutique stores in Dayton, we are just fortunate to have studio space to create and make your own fun gifts!’ says Canaan Good, one of the three owners of A&O. ‘We decided to add some different kinds of classes, and bring back some tried and true!’

The classes begin on October 22nd and go through December 17th. Most are on Sundays. ‘Everyone loves experiences, and there are plenty to try out this season.’ says Misty Wells, another owner. ‘We think adding more children’s classes will give the kiddos a chance to create for mom and dad, grandma and grandpa! Great for the Holidays!’

Beyond just coming to learn, A&O offers a discount to all participants on the day of the classes. ‘It’s an added bonus, and many people love getting their shopping out of the way while they are here!’ says Wells. Participants also enjoy food and beverages while they attend. ‘Oh yeah…mimosas are always a hit!!’

MostMetro was luck enough to get a jump on the schedule, which will be announced this weekend. Here is a first look at what’s coming to the A&O studio this season:

  
Sunday, October 22  Pet First Aid Class
1o people Max. $75/person
Learn about how to keep your pet safe, and what to do in an emergency situation.

 

Sunday, October 29  Needle Felted Animal Pins
6 people Max. $45*
Needle felting is so much fun! You will learn how to make 3D objects out of felt!

 

Sunday, November 5   Staghorn Fern Hangings.
12 people Max. $30.
ALWAYS A SELL OUT! A&O pride themselves on their fern hangings…come and make your own!

 

Sunday, November 12   Candle Pouring
12 people Max. $30.
Join the owners of the popular Oak Street Candle Company from Columbus, and make your own candles.

 

Sunday, November 19  Kids Gift Workshop DIY 
10 people Max. $35.
Yep. It’s fun for the kids…as A&O presents a do-it-yourself class.

 

Sunday, November 26  Cake Decorating Basics
10 people Max. $45.
Everyone LOVES RachelBakes, the award-winning cake decorator! She is teaching a fun, basics class for everyone.

 

Sunday, December 10  Needle felted Holiday Ornaments
6 people Max. $45. *Needle felting is a blast! You will make incredible ornaments!

 

Sunday, December 17  Terrarium/Holiday mini garden
16 people Max. $45. *Josh is back to help us create a holiday terrarium class. Always a hoot, and special spiked holiday hot chocolate just for the occasion!

**Ongoing, Learn Spanish with Chris Sidner. (As of this publication, dates and times are not finalized.)
Chris Sidner, local Spanish instructor, brings his expertise to an on-going language class at the studio.
Check with A&O for exact days/times.

WOW! This looks a great line-up. If you are interested in signing up for classes, the ‘Studio Hotline’ at 937.640.1500 will open on Tuesday, October 3rd at 11am. To reserve a space, you will need # of participants, payment method and a contact number for a follow-up confirmation call. AS ALWAYS, FIRST COME-FIRST SERVED!

Agnes and Orson is located at 514 East Third Street in the Cannery building. Open 11-7 Tuesdays thru Thursday, Fridays 11-6, and Saturdays 9-4. The store and studio are closed on Sundays and Mondays.  Give them a call at 937.640.1500.

Rockin’ on A Road Trip…But What to Listen to?

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Hit the Road!

Music is essential on a road trip….and road trips are hot again. Cheaper Gas, GPS and loads of fun within 3 hours of Dayton, make for a getaway for you and the gang.

The biggest question is: What do we listen to? In researching for this piece, a wrap-up of 10 online articles generated the following list, according to the ‘RoadTripping’ experts.

1. ‘Born to Run‘ by Bruce Springsteen. Featured on 9 of 10 lists, this song appears to be the biggest recommendation. Buoyed by Clarence Clemon’s sax and the push for sexual rebellion and escape, face it, the song has it all!

2. ‘Take it Easy‘ by the Eagles. This song, one that everyone seems to know word for word, has that moment we all wait to sing in unison….’a girl (my lord!) in a flatbed Ford’…..everything Eagles is safe for a road trip. They knew how to get us all involved in their music.

Love Shack BABY!

3. ‘Love Shack‘ by the B-52’s. Perhaps one of the iconic songs for any occasion these days, the B-52’s had no idea of the hit they were producing. The song gives us all the feeling of a getaway only known to us. Excitingly, the Shack can be in any woods, anywhere….even in Bellbrook!

 

 

4. ‘Layla‘ by Eric Clapton. From the guitar solo, to the ear-worming chorus, Layla is now considered one of the greatest rock songs in history. Point of trivia….Layla is based on a love story from the 7th Century in Arabia. WHAT THE????

Journey, Storytellers!

5. ‘Don’t Stop Believin” by Journey. I can feel the groans now, but this song has a magic in it. Its audience become story-tellers. Each time you sing it, you feel like you know that south Detroit boy, and that small town girl. It’s a classic in song and in story.

 

6. ‘Bohemian Rhapsody’ by Queen. I have to admit that Queen will forever be my favorite band. Freddie Mercury’s turn with this crazy ballad-meets-rock is exciting, silly, strange and whimsical. Mercury had hoped that the operatic part would be taken more seriously, but for those of singing it in our car, it’s really about fun!

Freddie Fantastic!

7. ‘Carry On my Wayward Son’ by Kansas. This song appears on 7 of 10 lists. Actually, I may have forgotten how much I do like hearing this song, had it not been for putting this article together. The opening really grabs you in for the duration. Many people take the lyrics to be a spiritual guide to life.

8. ‘You Shook Me All Night Long‘ by AC/DC. In an interview, AC/DC members stated they never exclude this song from their setlist because it is the quintessential moment in every concert where people go ‘haywire.’ Yep, it’s like a musical amphetamine!

9. ‘I Wanna Dance with Somebody‘ by Whitney Houston, is on 7 lists. No doubt, this song will have some critics as it seems to take the list in a different direction. But let’s play fair, I bet you know every single word! Houston’s hit sold ‘gazillions!’

10. ‘Ice Ice baby‘ by Vanilla Ice. With it’s ‘Under Pressure’ bass-line, and hard hitting lyric, people are not even aware of what the song is about. Robert van Winkle (Vanilla Ice) wrote the classic rap when he was 16. Sure, it’s easy to poke fun at the mocked classic, but keep in mind it was the first hip-hop song to hit #1 on Billboard!

Hip-Hop’s #1!

So, the flood gates are open….let’s hear it! What do you agree with? What’s missing? What should we all be listening to? Can’t wait to add your ideas to my playlist this summer! Travel safe….and SOUND!!!