Hope for the Holidays
When: 7 to 8 pm, Thursday, December 7 OR Wednesday, December 13
Where: Ohio’s Hospice of Dayton Community Room
324 Wilmington Ave., Dayton, OH 45420
To Register: RSVP by November 22 to (937) 258-4991
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Hope for the Holidays
When: 7 to 8 pm, Thursday, December 7 OR Wednesday, December 13
Where: Ohio’s Hospice of Dayton Community Room
324 Wilmington Ave., Dayton, OH 45420
To Register: RSVP by November 22 to (937) 258-4991
This article by by Vicky Forres originally appeared on the Hospice of Dayton website.
Early Christians used the anchor as a disguised cross and as a marker to guide the way to secret meeting places. It is a Christian symbol of hope, it is found as funeral symbolism in the art of the catacombs. It is also an occupational symbol in sea-faring areas or the attribute of St. Nicholas, patron saint of the seaman, it symbolized hope and steadfastness. An anchor with a broken chain stands for the cessation of life. Anchors are also a Masonic symbol and often found on Mason’s graves as they were a symbol for well-grounded hope.
Woodland Cemetery, founded in 1841, is one of the nation’s five oldest rural garden cemeteries and a unique cultural, botanical and educational resource in the heart of Dayton, Ohio as you will see as you read through this new MostMetro.com series. Visit the cemetery and arboretum and take one of the many tours Woodland offers free of charge. Most of Dayton’s aviation heroes, inventors and business barons are buried at Woodland.
Woodland Cemetery and Arboretum is located at 118 Woodland Avenue off of Brown Street near the UD Campus. The Woodland Office is open Monday through Friday 8 am to 5 pm and Saturday 8 am to 12 pm. The Cemetery and Arboretum are open daily from 8 am to 6 pm. The Mausoleum is open daily from 9 am to 5 pm. For more information, call 937-228-3221 or visit the Woodland website.
Here is a story you won’t soon forget. This is Steve Milano aka The Big Ragu. Typically I write about local restaurants and local eats. No Food Adventures today. Today, instead we give you some food for thought.
While most people are making plans and new year’s promises, others are making very simple ones. Their new year’s resolutions are to continue the fight, to live, to survive. This article is not only about a lifelong Dayton resident, it is about every person right now who is in a life and death battle with an illness. It is a lesson for all of us to remember.
Flashback 30 years ago, to August, 1987. The Centerville football team locker room empties as the players trot down the gravel to the practice field. It has been a long 8 months of weight lifting and conditioning. The original crowd in January of 100 perspective players has dwindled down to about 50. The ones who are left are preparing for their first game. One of those who persevered is a sophomore named Craig Jolly. Craig was strong, and motivated. Even then he was a fighter and a survivor in every sense of the word. I know. I was a senior playing offensive line too, and he was right there every practice, every step of the way.
Today, Craig has a family. He has a local home with his wife Kim and two young daughters. Unfortunately, Craig has something else. He has a battle to fight. But that is ok, because to his family, he is Superman. On July 14th, 2016 Craig was diagnosed with a Grade 4 Glioblostoma tumor, the most deadly and aggressive form of brain cancer there is. He was told then that the median life expectancy was 16 months.
Ironically this being the holiday season, jolly is a word used quite often in songs, holiday movies and tv shows. Their whole life, they lived with this name, Jolly. They are straining to hold onto that faith and their namesake.
His sister, Heather summed up the situation best on his DONATION PAGE:
Craig doesn’t live like he is dying. Craig lives like he is living.
And he always has. My brother has an enthusiasm for life, like I’ve never known. He effortlessly fills a room. He’s not just a piece of a part, he’s the whole show. He tells the jokes, and then he laughs at them too. And once you’ve heard his laugh you’ll remember it all your life. It bounces off walls and echoes down halls and it is unbelievably and undeniably infectious.
Craig isn’t just living, Craig is life.
He is the pulse of our family. The heartbeat of our home. And the first love of my life.
I have watched Craig fight, everyday these last 5 months. Everyday he fights. But he’s not just fighting cancer he’s fighting all the sadness and headache that comes with its demons.
That come with dying. But you’d never know. If he gets down, he gets back up.
Every. Single. Day. He fights.
He fights for happiness, for love and for joy. He fights for laughing and smiling and living out loud. He fights for Kim and for Evan and for Anne.
And everyday he wins.
I will be in awe of his strength, determination, and optimism for the rest of my life. I will be devoted, admire and respect him, for the rest his.
Craig has decided not return to work. His wife Kim has taken an immediate indefinite leave of absence from her work to devote herself to his round the clock care. They have spent money investigating countless studies, trials and equipment in pursuit of any glimpse of hope. But it doesn’t matter. Their commitment to each other is endless. .
Craig’s sister Heather describes Kim and Craig’s interaction:
Kim’s look is one of unconditional, unwavering, endless love. She has been our rock. Craig’s is one of a man completely still smitten, 20 years later. I see gratitude in his embrace and the hardest part is, I see an apology in his eyes.
I’m sorry we didn’t get forever. I’m sorry you’ll raise our children alone.
A PLAN OF ATTACK:
Heather goes on to explain that in late November/early December, doctors learned that Craig’s tumor despite being cut out, despite being radiated, despite being starved with a ketogenic diet, despite being poisoned with chemotherapy, is back, and has very aggressively grown and spread throughout his brain. But here’s the thing, you’d never know that either. Craig’s entire brain is swollen, shifted past midline, and infected with tumor. And yet he’s still just laughing, loving, living Craig. Is it sheer willpower? Or is it a miracle?
Surgery: Craig had decided to go forward on December 29th, with a very involved tenuous second craniotomy where they will remove all areas of tumor, a significant part of his brain and then inject a trial vaccine into the cavity to try to eradicate it. Craig fully understood the risks and possible outcomes. But you see, Craig is a fighter. He wants to go down swinging.
He wants to live life… living, as his family says.
Craig knew that regardless of the outcome, the knowledge gained from this trial will eventually help others.
The family asked Craig the week of his diagnosis 5 months ago if his sister could make him a “Go Fund Me” page, knowing very well
the catastrophic cost that come with terminal diagnosis’s. His pride just smiled, shook his head and declined.
“We’re okay he said, we don’t need it now.”
This time Heather didn’t ask him. This time she is asking anyone to help. He needs it now.
Heather wanted to raise money so Craig could enjoy these moments free of financial worry. So he can have some relief to spend time with his family stress free. So he can continue to spend his time living his life living, for all the days of his life.
Heather writes: “And I would be absolutely grateful beyond measure, if you would help me. #oursuperman”
UPDATE DECEMBER 28th – THE POWER OF POSITIVITY, PERSEVERANCE and PRAYER:
The family has been holding onto hope this holiday season. Again, Craig’s little sister writes on her Facebook page:
“Hope has been a word that’s hard to get close to these days. Hope has an electric fence wrapped and entangled around it; you can only get shocked by it so many times before you stop trying to get near it. There’s been so many times along this journey that we’ve gotten too close to Hope only to be jolted, thrown back in the air, and dropped to the ground.
But that wasn’t today. Today Hope knocked one out of the park.”
Craig explains why in his Caring Bridge Entry below.
#lovewins #thepowerofprayer #oursuperman
“I’ve never seen anything like it.” Not exactly the words you expect to hear from your neurosurgeon the night before brain surgery. My pre-operative MRI was significantly improved to the point that he had to double-check to be sure it was still mine. Mid-line shift was gone, swelling was down, and new lesions are now imperceptible. The main tumor that was 5.7 (and too large for me to qualify for the Tocogen trial) was now at 4.3cm. They’ve already submitted paperwork to see if I can re-qualify for the Toca trial, but for now we are standing down – no surgery tomorrow!!
And. . . exhale. This punctuates a couple day stretch where both car
batteries died, our dishwasher and sink broke, our basement flooded and we had to rush to the hospital to get a platelet draw again to see if I could even do surgery. Seriously, what a roller coaster.I’m gonna curl up in a warm bed and sleep well tonight. Or maybe now. Now feels good. . . “
Craig
It is great news heading into the new year and we wish Craig continued improvements. We hope this story is an inspiration and lesson to many. Please note as you ring in the new year. Some have resolutions that may be way different than yours. Take a lesson from perseverance and never giving up.
We wish a fantastic new year to Craig and his family and everyone who took time to read this article.
In 2017, you never know who will step out and be a superhero, but the Jolly family definitely has a #Superman.
If you would like to help donate to Craig’s cause, click the Go fund me links above or go to his Caring Bridge site HERE.
We love living in Dayton, Ohio… a close knit community that pulls together to help their poor, impoverished, down trodden and those suffering temporary crises. Lots of companies give not only during “the season of giving,” but year round.
Today, Food Adventures takes time to recognize some of the Miami Valley eateries that we have witnessed supporting numerous charities, year after year after year. These are some of the biggest givers, the most generous folks, but it is certainly not the complete list. These eateries give not only in the Christmas season, but support many charities, year round.
Let us first preface this article by saying that many, many local restaurants support various causes and give willingly to numerous charities. We realize that some of these establishments may have been missed in this article, but that does not diminish their impact on the community.
Without further delay, Food Adventures presents a list of some of the biggest givers, in alphabetical order:
LOCALLY OWNED:
Here are the locally owned restaurants that go above and beyond when it comes to charitable generosity:
AMBER ROSE: From the Ronald McDonald charities, to local performing arts charities, Amber Rose has a firm involvement in the community. They even have hosted events for Catholic women’s charities, Dayton Children’s Hospital and more. You can see owner Joe Castellano and his workers at many charity and social events throughout the year. They support the community quietly and never toot their own horn. They have also catered for and supported charities like the Dayton International Peace Museum and the local Habitat for Humanity. The list goes on and on..
ARCHERS TAVERN: This popular Centerville restaurant also leads the food scene in community involvement. Owners Dan Apolito and Mike Fullenkamp dive in and help many local causes, donating lots of gift cards and money. Their philosophy is when you give, it comes back to you. Small charities like Hannah’s Treasure Chest or local Alzheimer associations, no charity is too small or too big, and Archer’s helps a lot of them. They even donate to local charities with their everyday menu “wing challenge.” On May 9th, 2016, Archer’s plans on leading a charity event, Pro-Am, with celebrities such as Ickey Woods called Dayton Fairways for Airways Celebrity Golf Classic at NCR Country Club , benefiting the Jovante Woods Foundation. Food Adventures will be involved as well… stay tuned…
BEAVERCREEK PIZZA DIVE: Each Monday evening, they host an all you can eat pizza buffet for charity. They call it their “Serve Pizza, Do Good,” project. We call it a delicious and filling way to support local causes. Food Adventures has volunteered as guest pizza makers in the past to raise money for local charities like the “Miami Valley Pit Crew” and “Dayton Daybreak.”
BILL’S DONUTS: The best donuts in the world are made by some of the most caring people in the world. Siblings Lisa and Jim Elam have carried on the family business and tradition of giving to the community. They have sponsored dozens of kids baseball teams over the decades, and soccer teams too. They support the Blue Star Moms and Mackenzies Lemonade Stand, and so many more charities. One of their biggest giving events is the annual Superhero 5k Donut Run for “A Special Wish Foundation.” Food Adventures and Dayton Most Metro are planning on being a part of this event every year.
BRIXX ICE CO.: Owner Chris Bhai is an unsung hero for Dayton charity involvement. He is another proprietor who flies under the radar, supporting local causes at every turn. Charities such as Dayton’s domestic violence resource called the Artemis Center, 5 for the kids, and the local Leukemia Lymphoma Society have benefited from their donations. Whether hosting events, or helping cater, Brixx is a solid supported of the Miami Valley. If we listed all the local non-profits that Brixx helps, we would be here all day.
CAKE, HOPE and LOVE: Mike and Shannon Teague, owners of this bakery, started with just one cake pan. Now their reach is across the Miami Valley. They have a“Wall of Hope” on their website, where each month, they help a new local charity. Hospice of Dayton and The Hope Foundation of Greater Dayton are just 2 of the area charities they have helped recently. They also make countless donations of free product to charities like www.nohungrykid.org. Another example of good people doing good things for the Dayton community.
CASSANOS: Cassano’s latest generation, Lora, Chip and Chris, have continued their father’s and grandfather’s legacy in recent years. That legacy is a continued tradition of community involvement and charity work. Their “Cassano’s Cares” Foundation” has recently given tens of thousands of dollars to the local Spinal Muscular Atrophy foundation or “SMA.” The corporation has also given to and supported Grandview Hospital’s “Victor J. Cassano Health Center.” Other medical donations recently have gone to the Kettering Medical Breast Evaluation Centers. The Cassano family has also given away thousands of pizzas to charity each year. It is great to see a Dayton icon so involved in future of the Gem City.
CHAPPY’S TAP HOUSE: These guys continually hold events through the year as on site fundraisers for like selling old glassware for the Leukemia Lyphoma Society or doing a pint night to fight Prostate Cancer. They are always seen supporting various charity events, and never stop giving to the local cause. Good food, good beer and a company that gives back to the community.
DUBLIN PUB: These guys always lend a hand when charity involvement is needed. From donations to collecting Toys for Tots, they make a “yoemans effort.” The support the Dayton United Rehabilitation Services charity, and have even held fundraisers for a competitor’s bar owner, who had cancer. Holy Trinity Church and Dayton’s Alzheimers Association have been some of the charities that benefited from previous St Patty’s Day parties. Thanks to restaurants like this, local charities get that shot in the arm they need to serve the Miami Valley.
FIFTH STREET BREWPUB: Talk about year round commitment, these guys offer a guest bartending spot every Monday for charity. They also donate a portion of that night’s food receipts to the cause of the week. This is one of the coolest business philosophies and ensures that every week, Dayton area residents can help their favorite charity. Did we mention the great venue, food and beer selection? This brewery also has some of the friendliest staff in town. Manager Dave Tickel and his crew are second to none.
FRESCO CATERING: Owner Jenn DiSanto is an amazing chef, a wonderful mom and a true inspiration. She used her own personal triumphs as motivation to host events to help causes like the Leukemia & Lymphoma Society of Dayton. Jenn has organized some unforgettable charitable dinner events such as “Plating a Night of Hope.” She also volunteers at various local schools to teach cooking classes for kids. Chef Jenn is very active in the community and is always giving back. She regularly donates her time, talents and money to several local non-profit organizations, including breast cancer charities. She has inspired many through her successful fight with the disease. Being an animal lover, SICSA Pet Adoption Center is another charity close to her heart. Jenn has been a chef all over the world, and we are lucky this gem eventually landed in the Gem city.
GHOSTLIGHT COFFEE: Not many people are as involved in the Dayton community as owner Shane Anderson. He uses Ghostlight Coffee as a venue to showcase local artists and arts of all types. From hosting songwriter events that benefit the local Dayton Food Bank, serving up coffee at Masquerage, or providing a place for local charities to host their events, Ghostlight Coffee is a godsend to many who are fighting for a local cause. From music to poetry and everything in between. It seems as if we are seeing Ghostlight at about every charitable event, supporting causes in one way or another.
THE MEADOWLARK RESTAURANT: Chef and owner Elizabeth Wiley is a pillar of the community. Besides providing exceptional food at her restaurant, she is involved with countless local causes. She supports them with her time and money. For example, Chef Wiley judges the Springfield Food Truck Rally for charity. This benefits the Springfield Rotary Club’s charitable causes, including Services to People with Disabilities, Polio Plus and the International Project in Lesotho, Africa. Meadowlark is also a big supporter of Dayton Pride and the Greater Dayton LGBT Center championing the cause for equality, locally. Meadowlark’s chartible reach extends to other programs such as Dayton Public Radio’s Discover Classical, American Institute of Food & Wine, DaytonNightOut.com and so many others.
ONE BISTRO: This place promotes taking care of your neighbor. Dayton’s only “pay what you can afford” or “pay it forward” based restaurant, it is charitable in it’s nature. The staff is even made up with volunteers. You can volunteer to earn meals for yourself. Or you can volunteer as a donation of your time. Owners Robert and Kim Adamson business is driven by their faith in God and community involvement. We can think of no better cause than feeding the area’s hungry children and adults. One Bistro’s also donates to the area Red Cross’ Disaster Response Team.
SCRATCH CATERING: For years, Chef Matt Hayden has made terrific BBQ and gourmet meals. He has also donated to many area causes. From Dayton History events, to the Fleur’s Et Vin event for AIDS Resource Center Ohio. Scratch Food has left their imprint on the Dayton area, catering for many charity events. One such cause is the “Suzy Pender Memorial Fund,” which provides teddy bears to children at Miami Valley Hospital as a way to comfort them. Scratch Catering has provided the food for the Pender golf outing fundraiser for the past 15 years. Unprallelled generosity and dedication is what you find from the owners, here.
STONE HOUSE TAVERN: They are involved in many aspects supporting the Waynesville community. Stone House supports everything from kids athletic teams, to charitable gift card donations. They are currently partnering with Archers Tavern for the May 9th “Fairways for Airways” golf outing Pro-Am featuring sports stars like Ickey Woods. The event will benefit the Jovante Woods Foundation. We believe in supporting business like this that give back to Dayton in so many ways.
THE SUBMARINE HOUSE: Last year this restaurant donated over $15,000 to Children’s Hospital, at their “Super Duper Cheesesteak Challenge” event. Restaurant owners Jason and Brody Tanner, oversaw the event and check presentation to the hospital. This event is held annually and the crowds and donations have grown each year. Great grub, and a great cause, you haven’t been to a charity event until you’ve watched a fellow Daytonian wolf down a 16 inch sub in 2 minutes. But hey, “it’s for the kids.”
WHEAT PENNY OVEN & BAR: Chef Liz Valenti and Chef Elizabeth Wiley are known for their work and generosity at Meadowlark restaurant in the past. As Chef Liz branched out to run Wheat Penny, they have continued the tradition of giving. Upon their opening they hosted charity nights for The Artemis Center, SICSA Pet Adoption Center and The Food Bank of Dayton, respectively. Other charities supported in the past have been Yellow Springs Pride, GLSEN Dayton Chapter, and AIDS Resource Center Ohio, to name just a few. Not only is Dayton lucky to have such talented chefs, but we are lucky to have such generous supporters of various Miami Valley causes.
YOUNG’S JERSEY DAIRY: Yellow Spring’s favorite farm is big on charity. From a free Wool Gathering, to a Bike Tour for charity, that supports 4 charities, including United Rehabilitation Services of Dayton. They always seem to have something going on. Young’s even hosts a “Cheddar Challenge 5k” benefiting The Antioch University Midwest Scholarship Fund. All this, while continuing to serve some of the area’s most delicious ice cream.
ZOMBIE DOGZ: Local couple Lee and David VanArtsendalen are always giving back to the community. These owners of Zombie Dogz are always saying “yes” to favors, donations and appearances for good local causes. Lots of these causes involve animals and dogs. Like the “Furry Skurry 5k” for the Dayton Humane Society or the Dog Wash for the Battle Buddy Foundation which provides service dogs to veterans. Just some or their other fundraising appearances have included Harrison Township Trustees’ National Night Out against Crime, Kettering Funk Lab Dance Studio benefiting the dance team, AMVETS, Alex’s Lemonade Stand, Stonespring Transitional Care Center police fundraiser, a 5k benefit for Miami Valley Hospital’s Children Intensive Care Unit, Harrison’s Heroes foundationds benefit for the NICU unit at Dayton Children’s Hospital. They even make stops at local schools and churches. It is great to see this popular food vendor, with the most inventive and delicious hot dogs, supporting so many local causes.
THE CHAINS:
Here are some of the Dayton area chain restaurants, that give the most locally:
BONEFISH: Quietly giving and supporting many charity events, we have noticed Bonefish’s involvement on the local level. They are a sponsor for a local golf outing for Hannah’s Treasure Chest. Other charities they support include Catholic Social Services, ARC Ohio’s Red Table Gala, and Life Essentials to name just a few. They also donate countless gift cards to local requests, and are always open to lending a hand.
BRAVO! CUCINA ITALIANO: Bravo will work with various local charities for “dine and donate” nights and give 10% of food revenue to the cause. They host such events as “Breakfast with Santa.” From this event, they culminate a winter clothing drive for local shelters and $1 from each buffet sale goes to charity.
BRIO TUSCAN GRILL: Brio hosts and donates food to many local events. For example The Greene Daybreak event, to benefit Dayton Daybreak. They also sponsor the “Derby Day Brunch” to benefit The Kettering Medical Center Foundation’s Women’s Wellness Fund. These are just some of the events they cater and support each year.
CITY BBQ: A regional chain out of Columbus, people really love their BBQ. We also love when the delicious food is catered to local charity events. City BBQ is at many of these outings. They also do a ton of internal donations to Veterans charities, Future Farmers of America (Ohio), Leukemia and Lymphoma Society, Local cancer organziations, and Food Rescues. They also offer 25% event donations to school and booster groups as well as charities.
FIREHOUSE SUBS: These guys are known for their charity mission statement. Their Firehouse Subs Public Safety Foundation donates money for equipment for local firefighters. In October 2015, they celebrated a donation of $39,000 to the Kettering and Fairborn Fire Departments. Since the Foundation’s inception, they have donated $650,000 to Ohio Fire Stations.
JERSEY MIKE’S SUBS: Ted Tolliver owns the local franchises and he gives back to the community with passion. He has supported United Rehabilitation Services of Dayton in the past. In fact, upon each store opening he offered 10,000 free subs for a $1 donation to URS. Also, each year, during the month of March, customers are invited to come in to their local Jersey Mike’s restaurant and make a donation to a local designated charity partner. The campaign culminates in Jersey Mike’s “Day of Giving, a nationwide event. This day 100 percent of the day’s sales are donated to each local charity partner. Since 2011, Jersey Mike’s has raised more than $8.3 million for charities throughout the country. Ted has continually supported the United Rehabilitation Services of Dayton as his partner charity.
LONGHORN STEAKHOUSE, MORAINE: From pancake breakfast benefits, to event donations, Longhorn is carrying on the tradition of the late manager, Bob Medlin, by continuing to donate to dozens of causes each year. If we listed all of the charities, it would run for pages. Dayton Hospice Walk, Shoes for the Shoeless and Brief Blessings, Back2Back Ministries, Big Brothers Big Sisters program of the Greater Miami Valley, Miracle League of Dayton are just of few of the dozens of causes they support.
Chef House, The Big Ragu and Hungry Jax are proud to give a shout out to these fine people of Dayton who are making a difference in everyday people’s lives. Food Adventures would also like to say “Thank You” to these organizations, and a thank you to Dayton Most Metro for giving us a vehicle to present our weekly food scoop. Make sure you support these eateries that support the community.
There you have it, our list of some of the most generous and charitable restaurants.
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